Senior sex  

Frnds4Play 54M/64F
2686 posts
3/12/2006 7:43 am

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5/14/2006 8:50 am

Senior sex


warmandsexy52 has a blog up that we should all read. Its about sex and the elderly.

Senior sex is rarely talked about but should be. I can only tell what my sex life is from my own experiences.

I found that what your body looks like is not a determent from having an excellent sex life after 50.

The young look for perfect bodies, so that puts a lot of strain on a women to keep herself fit and thin. That doesn't happen in the over 50 crowd.

After 50, your body becomes less elastic and body parts start to droop, so breast end up at your knees, and tummy's end up at your ankles, and hanging skin is all over the place, but sexually you are freer.

I had a body image thing going on for many years. I wasn't your normal CA slim Jim or Susy. I always had weight on me, and I can tell you it was very hard growing up a few miles from the beach in a state that prides itself on the young, thin, tanned bodies. The pressure to be thin was constant. Even from my mother. So I had problems with my body. I'm tall, long legs short waisted with very small breast. You can get the picture.

My mother put me on diets to make me thin, my husband gripped about my weight, the whole state thinks thin and healthy and here I was, chubby to fat.

so, when I found Stan. Actually he found me, I was coming from all those years of being told I was too fat and needed to get thinner, so I was ashamed of my body. Too be naked in front of someone I didn't know, was my worst fear. A no, no. Never to happen if I had anything to say about it, but in order to experience the things I wanted to try sexually I had no choice but to start being nude in front of people I had never met.

My first experience was a swing club. I can't even put into words what it was like for me to walk around nude and have sex in front of people I had never met.

My next step was a swingers house party. Now that was more personal, a small group of people that liked to get together and have fun, sex included. I was still very self conscious about my body, and was until we joined the new swingers group where all the women were large.

It dawned on me then, that my big body didn't matter, it was who I am that mattered. In learning that it set me free to enjoy the parties and the sex. Now I am at the point where if you don't like the looks of my body then don't look at it.

So sex at 60 is an awesome experience and one I don't want to ever give up. Just because menopause has happened and I am no longer as "wet" as I used to be doesn't mean I can't enjoy sex.

I more than enjoy it, I have found that I crave it. I love being naked in front of my man, our bodies entwined in each other and my cumming with multiple orgasms. He barely has to touch me and I'm off and I am free to feel and experience the joys of love making with someone that enjoys my sexuality.

For all the women out their that are nearing 50 and scared I say, Don't be. Look forward to a new life, the after 5o life where the confines of youth are no longer holding you back. You will be set free if you just let it happen.

Life is good at 50-60-70 until whenever.

Kisses and hugs from a much freer woman than I was 20 years ago.

I am looking forward with relish to our next swingers party.

Take care everyone

Kat

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
3/12/2006 8:52 am

The older I get the better the sex is!

Purry {=}

Purry


rm_Deltabum69 68M

3/12/2006 8:55 am

Kat,
I can only agree with your comments. Each decade has only gotten better. I know that it will not go on forever but so far it has been great. It is wonderful to break loose of the physical aspect and discover how sensual most people can be. I will admit it is fun to look at a younger fit body but for me I am really attracted to an older female who is very comforable with herself, likes herself and believes that she is sexy!


warmandsexy52 66M
13164 posts
3/12/2006 11:15 pm

kat, this is a wonderful post. I will footnote my own to link it to this. Thanks for the mention and adding so much that is so rich.

warm xx


MarinadelMar 60F

3/14/2006 2:10 pm

I have recently arrived at this realisation about senior sex and I'm having fun
Thought-provoking read - thanks.


rm_unlistedone 67M
2718 posts
3/18/2006 2:11 am

I would say this is the perfect attitude from a perfect lady. You got "style..." Kat. biggest hug, unlisted


rm_hilllyn 68F
10 posts
5/4/2006 4:25 pm

love your story wish we could meet


hr66 56M

5/12/2006 11:49 pm

ould love to meet up with a group similar to yours in the nth Bris area

this would be a dream cum true love the older ladies they have so much more to offer as for being larger who cares


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