I don't Understand  

Frnds4Play 54M/64F
2686 posts
6/6/2006 6:55 am

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6/6/2006 8:29 pm

I don't Understand

Friends are people or a person that you have something in common with, someone that you like and enjoy being with someone you keep in touch with, right?

But in the lifestyle world it seems friends has a different meaning.

Stan and I are looking for people we can be friends with as well as enjoying sex with. It seems to be too much to ask for.

We met a couple a few months ago and we clicked, right off. We had similar interests other than just sex, but we had that also.

We ended up spending a weekend with them and as far as we could see everything went fine, we enjoyed long hours in bed and longs hours talking. We thought this one would last, but alas it didn't. Since that weekend we have heard virtually nothing. So, we have decided to just wait and see what happens with them. I did write to them several times.

Stan has been through this many times, but I had not, so I was expecting the same kind of communication we had before our meet afterwords, but it hasn't happened.

Stan and I will continue to look for that special relationship that includes it all, but I no longer think it will happen.

In the meantime we have the parties once a month and each other.

Take care everyone


buddhamike 107M
7006 posts
6/6/2006 8:36 am

The right folks can be hard to find, but don't give up. They are out there somewhere.

warmandsexy52 66M
13164 posts
6/6/2006 7:10 pm

Thanks for such an insight into the lifestyle, which is interesting, particularly in light of what you've said about the nature of relationships within it. I do hope you and Stan find who you're looking for. You never know what lies around the corner.

warm xx

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