I have a question for the couples...  

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6/5/2006 9:32 am

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11/10/2006 8:30 am

I have a question for the couples...

On behalf of all the male standard members here (we all know the females don't have quite as much trouble attracting attention...lol)I have a question for you couples who are seeking men.

Here's the problem: The only way standard members can contact you (the couple)is by instant messaging you when you have your instant messenger open. The Instant message window only allows you to type one very short sentence, thus severely limiting your ability to sell yourself.

Here's the question: From your point of view, what is the best thing that a guy can say in that brief instant message to interest you enough to respond and say hello so he can try to get to know you and possibly make a connection?

I know that such intros as "Wanna fuck?" are generally a turnoff, yet I have also had simple "Hello, How are you?" s ignored also.

I'm not seeking the majic words that are gonna make you want to race over and me, but it would be nice to know how to at least get people to respond long enough to say, "No thanks. I'm not interested." Even if someone is rejecting the chance to get to know me, I always appreciate and respect them for taking the time to tell me so rather than ignoring my hello.

Some help would be tremendously appreciated.

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