Seriously Giving The Fuck Up  

FrfghtrsPepper 54M/38F
9 posts
6/10/2006 5:34 am

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6/10/2006 7:31 am

Seriously Giving The Fuck Up

Ya know, I will be the first to admit, I fucked up. I posted on our group, a personal joke that should have been left alone. I admitted to fucking up, and I apologized for it. Then when I knew people were probably asking this person, left and right what happened or what the joke was about, I tried to take the heat off the person and posted a bit of a white lie. Making myself look like the ass, and hoping people would laugh at me and leave this person alone. That's all I was trying to do. Well then this person posted what really happened and stated that I thought what really happened was funny. And that was far from the case. It was something we all kind of joked about, the three of us that were there at the time. I just give the fuck up. I try to right my wrongs, and seem to end up making shit worse. I just GIVE THE FUCK UP!!!!! This is a couple that I considered to be very good friends of ours. But I doubt I ever call them that again. What the fuck, why bother trying to fix things when you fuck up, I personally just give up.

DanaeKC 44F
608 posts
6/10/2006 7:23 am

i don't get it. the only people who matter are the people the 'joke' was about. if they were offended, you take it up with them, not everyone else, in private. if they weren't offended, then everyone else can fuck off.

if they pretended not to be offended, but were privately offended, then they are assholes. if they were not only privately offended but talked shit about you behind y our back while pretending to you it was no big deal, then they are not friends, and you're better off without them in the first place.

but there was no reason to 'lie' or martyr yourself. that makes no sense.

i guess this is an issue of having to be there in order to figure out what you're talking about, and what is truth, and what is only your trying to spin something to your advantage after it's blown up in your face. shit happens. that's human.

buck up, chin up. don't martyr yourself. be an adult. if it was truly a joke, and they were truly your friends, it can be smoothed oer.

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