Links .......just because  

Fox4aKnight1 44F
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1/29/2006 8:31 pm

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Links .......just because

Here are some post links that I have enjoyed reading for whatever reason lately .......go have a gander.....updates as I read them...

this one made me smile 26 ways to make a girl smile
This one made me laugh Or what
This one also made me laugh Choosing a Husband
This one I really enjoyed,,,thought provoking DO YOU TRUST ME

rm_Greyeyesky 42M

1/30/2006 11:28 am

While it is true that we often miss the forest for the trees, and there is a level of internal duality, I was refering more to my belief that there is a distinct difference between what we feel and what is real. While nothing is more real to us than what we feel, that is something we can never truely express because in expressing, the idea is then filtered through the feelings of others. In short, no matter how we try to relate to one another, something is always lost in translation. Thanks for visiting my blog and taking the time to post.

Fox4aKnight1 44F

1/30/2006 2:36 pm


Ok hun I mistook what you were saying about the lieing to oneself as to be more or less the truth but that I suppose that in some ways that we need an outside observer or two to be able to really and truely be able to give us an accurate observation. Perferabley two or more. But addressing your main point and continuing through the other points, reality is observable but to be honest we never see that. The reason is that observation is shrodingers (sorry spelling his name proper is difficult). 2. also shrodinger again, And you are right about the lost in translation. However that being said its a matter of finding the people that are capable of using the least amount of filters sanely to see things cearly. But then we are discussing Teepathic and since we are human and are of this world there is no was of observing without changing things by our very observations.

ummm gonna stop here for a sec.


rm_Greyeyesky 42M

1/30/2006 5:16 pm


Brilliant referance to Shroedinger's problem. In that, I think you've hit the nail on the head. Relationships often take on those qualities, and in finding love, we become Shroedinger's cat... if we look, we may find what we want, or we may find flaming wreckage. Either way, without looking, neither are possible, and either are just as likely. The problem (again to make analogies) is the paradox of observer/observed. We can not see ourselves or others as we truely exist, because to interact at all fundamentaly changes both individuals, to which I say: Bring on the change.


Fox4aKnight1 44F

1/30/2006 8:06 pm

LOL Johnathan ....thanks hun ......and yes its the closest analogy because the physical world (as opposed to the murky realm or theroy and emotions) I do not belive that shrodingers theroy is correct. But that is personal opnion. LOL I never even wentr to highschool so I only know the therom, not the truth. LOL ......smoke and mirrors my friend .....smoke and mirrors


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