Love or Lust?  

ForeverHorny 61F
13 posts
12/31/2005 12:10 am

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11/6/2007 8:42 pm

Love or Lust?

How do you tell the difference between love and lust? When has it crossed the line? Is it when you can't stop thinking about somoene who has made you cum and cum and cum or is that just lust? What does love feel like? How does it differ from lust? I enjoy sex and variety and freedom and fear committment so have I ever been in love or was it just lust?. I have never had a guy tell me he loves me. If the guy did I probably would have run far and fast. So how do I tell? If he calls every day and you talk and go out to dinner it is not just a booty call, right?. The guy must be feeling something more and it scares me. So is it love?
I have tried so hard not to fall in love so I don't get hurt. Keep it casual and safe that has been my MO. However I have also wondered what it would be like to be loved by someone. I also wonder if I am capable of love? I am so good at casual sex. I thought the guy was crazy about me but is it just the hot sex and does he just lust after me and I him?.
I would love to hear responses and advice from you all out in AdultFriendFinder blog land.


PM_CreativeCpl 82M/79F
393 posts
4/18/2008 12:16 pm

I think you can have both. My current partner and I are very much in love but we also lust for each others body and totally enjoy sex. In order to keep it fresh we also swing. We decided that when we met, neither of us wanted to give up past friendships, especially ones that involved great sex. In fact we have introduced these past lusty relationships to each other. So far no jealousy. I don't know if that helps or not.

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