Does having a great body mean great sex?  

Firsttime36 54F
209 posts
4/19/2005 7:51 pm

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Does having a great body mean great sex?


I dont think having a great body makes or breaks a lover.

I dont have the greatest body in the world...but does it mean I cant have great sex?

I have been with Bubba, I have been with Ken..and as long as they know how to please a woman....I dont really care about their physique.

I dont want gross...I mean, flab and ick all over...but I have been with me with big bellies, and it didnt bother me. Its how they were in bed that mattered..and how they treated me outside the bedroom too.

I have the lil belly roll...I have a certain jiggle...I am not sure I would be considered a BBW but I am by no means Barbie....but I think what I can do for a man outside and inside the bedroom is what counts.....if its all about my body, then you dont need to know me anyhow.

Nice and clean is very important...I want to be able to kiss and love a man all over and not be overcome by bad odors...it makes sense to be a considerate lover.

And making it all about me..cos when that happens..I certainly will make it all about him...

able202 67M
2681 posts
4/19/2005 8:54 pm

That is so true. Attitude is so much more important than physique. If a person is comfortable with themselves and clean that is what counts. As long as they are free in their minds and not hung up on the physical crap.

Life is for enjoying sex is great lets enjoy

Able202


Lapkin4u 43F

4/19/2005 9:43 pm

I hear you girl.....I by no means have a barbie body...im thirty with two kids...gimme a break.....but I have been told by almost every man ive ever been with that I am a great lover......I have also been with men that arent in the best of shape and it didnt matter......to the same degree you mentioned above.......so no I truly believe you do not have to have a great body to have great sex.


rm_lovaniceass 58M

4/19/2005 11:03 pm

absolutely not...helps..but a great body is only part of the equation..


goformor123 67M/64F

4/20/2005 12:47 am

good point, who a person is, is just as important as what they look like. I too am a bit over weight, but am clean, a good lover, and respect others, It it the quality of sex that counts, not the looks. Looks are only good if you are concerned in public image. And I have a slim and trim wife, who is happy with me, as I am with her, but we still meet with others who are not the same size or shape as us.


rm_nordic68 49M
36 posts
4/20/2005 4:21 am

You're quite correct. In fact, I find that women with perfect bodies are usually (and I mean usually, not always) too inhibited about their appearance to let go enough to have great sex. Great sex is all about letting go, and if you're worried about what you look like, it's not going to happen. So I'll take the pretty face and the not-perfect body over the perfect body any time.


rockwriter58 57M
1389 posts
6/23/2005 8:48 am

I am sorry I have never seen this blog until today! The new "Get Local" feature steered me here. You have an interesting blog and I like the open truth you expose in your life. I've been reading backward through the blog and this was the first spot that I found where I thought I could contribute.

First, some of the best sex I've had in my life was with women who had a little stomach roll and a definitive jiggle to them. My answer is far too long for this spot. If you have any interest, see my blog entries "The Prettiest Woman Ever" (June 21) and "Craving Big Busty Women" (May 25).

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