The Tao of Sex  

SleekIcilyVarix 42M
1024 posts
6/10/2006 12:28 am
The Tao of Sex

Here's some body pudding for thought...

The perpetuation of life energy by means of sexual intercourse is, for many Taoists, a perfect expression of harmonious interaction of yin and yang. While the female orgasm is celebrated evocatively as "high tide," ejaculation by the male is equated with "throwing oneself away"-or even, in the case of the man who reaches orgasm before his partner does, with "being killed" by the woman.

The Taoist sexual ideal is one in which the male routinely practices rigorous personal discipline during lovemaking. The idea here is to conserve and replenish life energies rather than disperse them heedlessly. And yes, that means what you think it means.

-Brandon Toporov

This is one of many things I find facsinating about Taoism.

Fire quote of the day:
"Remember in elementary school you were told that in case of fire you have to line up quietly in a single file from smallest to tallest? What is the logic in that? What, do tall people burn slower?”
-Warren Hutcherson

smoothnjuicy4u 51F

6/10/2006 8:15 am

Hey Fire
Interesting, though I would problay hate it !! A man ejaculation is so erotic and I take it as a compliment on a task well preformed.
Just the other day my hubby took care of me so to speak and not his self, it was very enjoyable and nice but it lacked something for me,just felt like an unfinished job,it always does.
I suppose I'm saying I am glad my hubby doesn't practice Taoism just wouldn't work for me. But hey if it works for you have fun!! I am sure some women would LOVE it.

SleekIcilyVarix replies on 6/10/2006 9:36 am:
Hey Smoothy Male ejaculation isn't completely discouraged. It's more about making sure the session lasts long enough to meet her needs than depriving him of meeting his. It's about priorities.

jadedbabe78 107F

6/10/2006 12:56 pm

SO, it's a lot like Tantra....

SleekIcilyVarix replies on 6/11/2006 12:42 pm:
I hadn't thought about it that way, but you're right

rm_shannee2006 53F
3355 posts
6/10/2006 5:06 pm

I agree that this practice is something like tantra...but I think that the woman can help the man with this loss of life energy by sending it back into him when he releases it into her. I practice this way and find my husband has no decrease in his energy level afterward.

Yup...this juiciness is from me....


SleekIcilyVarix replies on 6/11/2006 12:44 pm:
It's amazing what one can do with one's life energy, especially the sharing

SleekIcilyVarix 42M

3/14/2007 6:12 am

    Quoting TheOracle2006:
    Practice makes perfect. And I hope you practice what you preach.

    Never doubted it.

    L'Oracle de L'Amour

Yes... and I am looking forward to more...practice.

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