Awkward situations.  

10FireDawg 41M
86 posts
8/22/2005 7:28 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Awkward situations.

A while back (a good year or two at least) I filled out a profile on another personals site for the hell of it. Not an adult site like this one but without mentioning the name it's a pretty popular site itself. While browsing I came across an ad for the younger sister of a good freind of mine, a friend I've known since I was 5 or 6 years old. The younger sister was 18 or 19 at the time so it's all legal but do you bit your tong or do you say something to the friend?

Well it happened again. I forgot all about the ad and for the hell of it went to the site in shock I still have an active ad there and set about browsing. A co-worker of mine has an ad up, she's recently separated and is not a bad looking woman... Creates an awkward moment. Do you mention you've seen it, forget about it? How exactly do you bring that up if you do mention it? She's a good looking woman and a great person that deserves a hell of a lot better than what her husband was giving her so I figure she'll get a ton of replies. Just one of those situations where it's tough to figure how/what is the best thing to do. I wonder if she saw mine and is going through the same questions.

hotandhorny107 60F

8/22/2005 10:45 pm

No reason to mention the ad in either case as I see it, but since you did see the ad why not ask either or both of them out at some time. Obviously they are available and looking to have some fun in life. It may not work out that they want to see you, since a relationship with a co-worker can be an awkward situation as well as with the sister of a friend, especially a good friend. Maybe that one is one you should not approach since you are good friends.

Just don't bring up the fact that you saw the ads

10FireDawg 41M
181 posts
8/31/2005 5:26 pm

It's a weird one, the friend's sister would never happen (although another friend tried setting me up with one of his sister's friends at one point but that was back when she was 17/18 and I was 21/22 so the timing was horrible). The co-worker I think would work if not for her 2 kids. I have no problem with the kids and it wouldn't be a big issue except she's a country girl and I'm a city person. Her agreement with her ex is the kids staying in the same schools which wouldn't happen if we got together..... Ah who am I kidding, I haven't posted on it yet (planned to for my b-day but never got to it because of vacation, depending on the mood maybe I will this weekend) but I had a massive heart breaking thing with a co-worker and don't know if I'd want to repeat it, the kids and location are just a good excuse not to even try.

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