What do females really want from a man?  

FineButLonely2 43M
14 posts
6/7/2006 10:03 am

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What do females really want from a man?

From my experiences with women it seems that their main objective in life is to confuse men.They may not do it on purpose but they do it.
They start relationships one way and in the middle of it they change. WHY?
They never know what they really want until a man makes a suggestion, then they for some reason decide to do the opposite. WHY?
They never know how to make their men happy until he tells them, but if you're in a relationship in the first place your job is to study your man to know what he likes and dislikes before he tells you. WHY IS THAT?

Women I love you to death, but get it together!

rm_shaveclean2 57M/44F
691 posts
6/7/2006 3:00 pm

I suppose Men don't Change??? It's not that Women change or Anyone Changes for that Matter...it's just that WE ALL ignore jacked up things about the Person in the beginning. But when the Euphoria ends we start we stop ignoring irritating habits!!



FineButLonely2 43M

6/7/2006 3:48 pm

Damn G, You have all the answer. that's good though. I appreciate your feedback.

lickmeallnight29 41F
1 post
6/11/2006 8:10 pm

Its not only women that change men do to.And you are right a woman needs to study her man but also a man needs to study his woman.And just because you had a bad relationship don't pass judgement on other women because the right one is out there some where.Believe that!

love_bein_single 54F
13 posts
6/17/2006 7:22 am

It would take me a book to write all my theories and thoughts on the subject of the male female relationship. It probably all wrong anyway cause I am as clueless as they come. The only thing I can say is COMMUNICATION is the key. Set expectations up front so no one is surprised or disappointed. If things change or need to change, talk about it ASAP. I am just getting out of a marriage with a husband who would get pissed often cause I could not anticpate his every need and accommodate them right away. When it came to my needs, he actually thought my only need was to take care of his needs. And I am not talking sexually, he didn't need that as often as I did so my sexual needs were rarely fulfill which is why I am here making up for lost time. Too bad you don't live closer because I am a nice older heavier woman who just wants to get together and have sex. The only "string" I have is that we set expectations up front, if it is a one time thing, fine just let me know. If you want to be fuck friends, that will take some more discussion based on how much time we have to commit to a sexual friendship. If you want more, I will be saying thanks but you will have to look elsewhere for that. It doesn't sound so hard but my experience is people don't usually talk enough and wires get crossed all the time. Good topic, wish you weren't feeling so confused and let down.

FineButLonely2 replies on 6/17/2006 5:58 pm:
That was pretty good and I totally agree. Thanks for the feedback.


danakedpoetess 44F

6/22/2006 6:45 pm

I must say I agree to a certain point but every woman does not fit this scenerio. Have you ever taken the time to think that maybe its the type of women you are dealing with whm are making you feelthe way you are feeling. The only way ANYONE can confuse someone is if they allow themselves to be confused. It sounds to me that you are bitter from past relationships and instead of taking the time to figure what went wrong in the past to avoid future or present repeatings you could have went into another relationship bringing that baggage along. The type of women you've encountered does not know who they are as individuals therefore depends on others to make decisions on what she feels she likes or wants from the opposite sex. Basically their description entails women who are used to being controlled and suffered from some type of abusive relationship, have lack of self-esteem, and only doing what they know how. You can not expect women to perform miracles on you when they are in need of a miracle themselves. It doesnt take years for a person to reveal who they are men and women can only pretend for so long before their true selves are shown. This is what I do when I meet a man...First of all just like men I dont want anything that is easily accessible or attainable. I dont want to run behind him either but at the same time I need a man who knows what he wants and how to go about doing it. If he wants me he doesnt have show desperation to get me but still show interest. But once I speak with a man before I make a decision if I am going to see him I will talk for about 20 minutes...20 minutes because the first 10 minutes he is going to try to impress me and next 10 minutes he would have gotten comfortable and begin to reveal certain things to alert me whether to establish anything further. Maybe you should take some "ME" time to figure out exactly you are looking to gain from the opposite sex other than SEX...there is more to life than a 20 second orgasm and you are doing good if it lasts that long. I am sorry I took longer than I planned but hey I am writer and this is what I aim to do "Expose Truth and Purify da Soul" DaNakedPoetess

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