Against abortion..?  

FatalTigeress 48F
58 posts
12/7/2005 7:57 pm

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Against abortion..?

Are you against abortion???? Completely?

Usually, people who are against abortion are against ALL abortions. I am not.

I am only against those abortions that are performed as a means of birth control... as a means to correct a "mistake" or act of stupidity.

If I had known that my second child would not be able to survive outside of my body... That she would never hear my voice... Feel my touch... or even know how much I loved her...and how all of my dreams would be crushed when her heart beat for the last time...

I would have had an abortion. In the 3rd month...or the 6th.

I would have done the merciful... I would have aborted a pregnancy that lasted 9 1/2 months - the last 3 weeks spent knowing my child was conceived just to die... then resulting in a long and terrible delivery and a battered and bruised stillborn child.

My child.

Did she feel the crushing pain as the nurse pushed on my abdomen, to help force her out - not realizing at the time that they were pushing her out breech....her face taking most of the downward pressure? Did she feel the suffocating lack of oxygen?

Before you judge those who support abortion... Maybe you need to walk a few miles in their shoes. Maybe you need to sit down with them and listen to their stories. Maybe you need to open your mind... and your heart to the pain that others have endured.

This was not my perfect child...

I have a heart...I have a soul... I am not a murderer.

I receive the following email often - this last time, it was posted at MySpace. Have you come across this? Do you agree...or are you like me and find exceptions to the rule?

Body: month 1
Mommy, I am only 3 inches long, but I have all my organs. I love the sound of your voice. Every time I hear it, I wave my arms and legs. The sound of your heart beat is my favorite lullaby.

month 2
Mommy, today I learned how to suck my thumb. If you could see me, you could definitely tell that I am a baby. I'm not big enough to survive outside my home though. It is so nice and warm in here.

month 3
You know what Mommy, I'm a girl!! I hope that makes you happy. I always want you to be happy. I don't like it when you cry. You sound so sad. It makes me sad too, and I cry with you even though you can't hear me.

month 4
Mommy, my hair is starting to grow. It is very short and fine, but I will have a lot of it. I spend a lot of my time exercising. I can turn my head and curl my fingers and toes, and stretch my arms and legs. I am becoming quite good at it too.

month 5
You went to the doctor today. Mommy, he lied to you. He said that I'm not a baby. I am a baby Mommy, your baby. I think and feel. Mommy, what's abortion?

month 6
I can hear that doctor again. I don't like him. He seems cold and heartless. Something is intruding my home. The doctor called it a needle. Mommy what is it? It burns! Please make him stop! I can't get away from it! Mommy!! HELP me!! No . . .

month 7
Mommy, I am okay. I am in Jesus's arms. he is holding me. He told me about abortion. Why didn't you want me Mommy?

Every Abortion Is Just . . .
One more heart that was stopped. Two more eyes that will never see. Two more hands that will never touch. Two more legs that will never run. One more mouth that will never speak. Repost this if you have a heart and are aganist Abortion

rm_cockmerollme 46F
1223 posts
12/7/2005 9:01 pm

No. I'm a Catholic, and I have never had a desire to tell other women what to do with their lives. Not my problem. I wish all these people against abortion would turn the energy onto drunk drivers, but that's too close to home. We all know someone who has a dwi, fuck, even the president and vice prez have one. Most of our favorite actors have at least one. More people die every day from DWI's than fetuses are terminated. So.....what? What do we do?


rm_saintlianna 46F
15466 posts
12/7/2005 9:15 pm

I have had two heartbreaking miscarriages and I missed the chance to have them, that almost killed me but I tell you what, the DNA tests proved it was so deformed it could have never lived anyway. Sometimes dead is mercyful. Sometimes dead is better.

SirMounts 103M

1/6/2006 2:08 pm

There is no other issue, and no other situation, that is more... difficult than abortion. It goes right down to our basic beliefs, and our very view of the world. Honorable people are on both sides of the issue. But the reason why so many are so upset, is because the Supreme Court took it out of the political process, where people, at the end of the day, could say, "Well, I gave it my best effort, but the majority was not with Me. I can accept that." The Supreme Court, by its nature, is anti-democratic. That is, it renders judgements, immune from the political process. Sometimes, to the detriment of the country they are pledged to serve.
For Me, I just can't get past the fact that 1,200,000 babies are killed every year. That's 38,400,000 since the Roe v. Wade ruling in 1973. Look around. Do thirty eight million people live in your state? In your region? That's how many have died.
Soviet dictator Joseph Salin, when he was told that wiping out an entire population of people in his country would be bad for public relations, commented, "If you kill one person, it's a tragedy. But if you kill a million, it's a statistic." I often wonder how people would feel if they were to winess even a dozen little bodies being dismembered. Surely, those with a heart would say... no more! My motto is... "Pro Women, Pro Children, Pro Life".

32 posts
2/10/2006 1:04 am

Dear Fatal, I feel your pain... don't be disturbed by those who would condemn you. They don't have a life and are lifted in their own minds when they give you their unwanted opinions, they do it for selfish reasons... and walk away patting themselves on the back.
I can tell you that those babies that are fortunate enough not to be released into a life of the flesh have never felt a second of pain or doubt and our God would never give them that first nine months to be what they call "alive" because He knows they are coming home and He has already prepared their space in the Kingdom, Jesus to comfort them, and Angels to sing their lullabyes... and yes, your child was perfect, still is. And no, you are not a murderer... those babies are not in heaven asking "Why didn't you want me?". That is the most ridiculous attempt at creating guilt that I have heard yet. And your baby is with Jesus and asking "When can my mommy come and be with us Jesus? She loves me!" Never doubt for a moment the power of Love... you will see your child smile one day and welcome you home. I don't waste time with the idiocrasies of this world because it won't be anything that any human in this life has judged me for... they die too! And they will assume responsibility for the pain they have caused while pointing the finger into their neighbors mis-haps... and all the while they have not been angels themselves. Woe is them. If a baby dies, that baby is with Jesus... I don't care how mangled the body became, that baby didn't want to be here anyway! Another thing... what sickminded "Pro" went around counting the dead baby bodies? Wasn't anything else to do or what? No homeless people to comfort and build a home for? No drug addicts to befriend and help recover from their addictions? No hungry children in a far away land to feed? No parentless children in their own backyard to furnish with Love and compassion? These people spend their time creating their "reasons why" and that time and energy could have been channeled into a "comfort zone" for those who need comfort. I'm with you Fatal... a planned pregnancy that sees full term with no complications is a beautiful thing and His Love creates a child, no doubt! But don't ever let them look down upon you for not hopping on as their wagon rolls by... they know not what they do, and soon they will be just another fart in the wind.

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