First Night on AFF  

FLCockLover42 54F
5 posts
12/29/2005 8:21 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

First Night on AFF

So, I've decided to put a profile on this site, a sex site at that. It will be interesting to see if this works differently than regular personals sites, especially since I have changed my desires and thoughts about relationships and sex. I've never been interested in sex with men just so I could feel the physical pleasure it can bring. I always thought I needed a relationship in order to have sex. I am still not sure what my comfort level would be if I do meet someone to be sexually involved with, but I'm willing to explore the possibility.

Most people who know me don't understand how I am still single, but I am so set in my ways, and my thoughts on how a relationship should be that I'm not sure I'll ever find someone to meet my expectations for a long-term relationship. I am really down to earth, but at the same time I'm not naive and don't put up with the B.S. that most men seem to have a natural knack for. I don't feel like I'm negative about men, just realistic. It's difficult to find one with a good soul, and depth, someone intellectual, and funny...and who knows how to take care of a woman so she will want to take care of you in every way.

SOOO, I'm going to see if it's possible to find someone interesting enough to have sex with (hopefully on a mutually satisfying level and regular basis), and forget about the long-term relationshp idea. I'm happily single and don't need a man, but would enjoy the company of one at times. I also like to play around, sexually experiment, get kinky, and I'm missing that part of my life. I also LOVE to suck COCK, and miss that very much. How I got to be in my early 40's so quickly...I'm not, I don't want to turn around and be 50 or 60 and still not be having sex regularly.

I'm just wondering if others will share their experiences on my blog. Have you met partners in this area that you hit it off with on more of a sexual basis than a dating relationship? How many partners do people have? I don't want to be sleeping around with every Tom, Dick, and Harry....just DICK would be great! Any tips?

Hope to get some responses and see how this all works.

letmelicku0269 47M
1 post
1/9/2006 6:19 pm

Looks like you may have come to the right place but who knows. I can certainly understand you being set in your ways and not wanting to change. I am pretty much there myself, at 34. Not even sure what I'm doing here other than I find it humorous to read over some of the blogs. Be careful who you meet... the only advice I can give.

rm_sailorwebpc 63M

1/11/2006 11:46 am

Being recently divorced I too would like no-strings sex. Going out and searching the bars to meet someone to have sex with is not for me. Having a relationship based on the concept of sex-only right from the beginning is needed. Not having to worry about staying the night or dating or why didn't you call or all the other stuff that goes with a serious relationship. Just a commitment for sex.

93laser 47M
1 post
2/7/2006 7:49 pm

i to am seeking something with no strings look at my profile and go from there.

rm_windchimed 67M

2/9/2006 6:15 pm

I may be different, although I doubt it. I've found throughout my life that having sex for the pleasure of it alone is all well and good for awhile, but that it also begins getting old after shaking hands. The intimacy I find myself looking for ultimately with another lies deeper than sex. I'm speaking in that regard about having numerous partners. But, for me....having sex with someone involves exposing myself...starting at the flesh, and then peeling away my emotional barriers that I've been inclined to place before others. As I continue to have sex with the same person, I've found if difficult to continue doing so on the purely sexual level. Again, I may be different, but I find it difficult having sex with no strings for too long.

rm_SLATER180180 50M
1 post
2/11/2006 11:34 am

well hey there sweetie !!! panama city here too. i'm 38 but look 25 long blonde hair blue eyes. love to here from u. u can add me as slater180 on yahoo messenger, if u even have yahoo messenger. well love to here from u ..

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