Honesty With Myself and My Relationship....  

F1reman6969 51M
163 posts
1/31/2006 7:35 am

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Honesty With Myself and My Relationship....


i've changed my profile for the second time and final time now.
why?
because i needed to pinpoint what i want out of any relationship that may be sparked from this site.
i want to know what i want out of arelationship for the long term.
i also want to be open and upfront with any woman who happens to take an interest in my profile and let her know exactly what i'm looking for.
i don't think i'm out on a limb saying that i just want to find her, if i haven't already and she hasn't told me yet.
however, my honesty might not get me anywhere with her.
that's okay.
at least i've been honest within myself and with her and any potentials out there.
but i know that whoever she is, she's out there with the same desires as me.
she would relish the thought of partnering up with me for the ride of her life, for the rest of her life if she so desired it.
the problem that i've noticed however, is geographical location.
she is not or may not be in close proximity to me.
she may live thousands of miles away.
if only there was a machine that could transport us through the time/space continuum, where we could be together on a whim alone.
the other problem is that she may be trapped in a relationship that she cannot forsee getting out of in order to be able to pursue something with me.
i'm all for a win-win solution, and i wish that there was an easy answer for the dilemma of having an already existing hurtful partner who cares nothing for her desires and wishes and fantasies.
i know life is complex, but surely she is out there.
she must exist, that one is out there for me and who is not burdened and who lives within the same 200 mile radius of my little city in Canada.
if you are out there, where are you and please let me know that you exist.
and please be honest with yourself and with me in our new relationship.
i want to be your whatever-you-want, but i also want to know where i stand and why i stand there.
i know i might be a bit naive, but i'm not stupid.
communicate honestly with me and we will have a lasting relationship on our consensual terms.
that's all i ask.
that's what i've just done, finally.
i hope you appreciate it, whoever you are or might be.

cheers,

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rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
1/31/2006 4:08 pm

Awwwwwwwwww,

I hope Mrs. Right finds her way to you.

Purry {=}

Purry


F1reman6969 51M

1/31/2006 8:44 pm

PurryKitty,
thank for the kind words.
i'm still waiting for her to make her appearance....



f-6969


SxyMelody 41F

1/31/2006 9:44 pm

It sounds nice, but i have found that often the person we think is Mr. or Mrs. Right are not (but maybe not until too late) I hope that you find who you are looking for hun, I am sure she is out there somewhere and can give you everything you deserve.

Sxy


rm_wenchang1966 48M
404 posts
1/31/2006 10:15 pm

PurryKitty2: Do you really hope? Contact him.


F1reman6969 51M

2/1/2006 11:17 pm

SxyMelody,
i realize today that the "she" i'm looking for might not exist, at least in any one female, and that makes me quite sad.
i agree with you that things seem more like ms. right now and may never be ms. right.
i value the relationships i make in my everyday life and i love all those women who i have learned from and i cherish that.
i think i may never meet ms. right and i may have to settle for ms. right now, whoever she is.
all i know is that i will cherish and hold sacred all the relationships that may come to pass, that's a part of life that i love.
thanks for grounding me in reality.

wenchang1966,

you really think...?

nah?

PurryKitty2...?

Whew!

thanks for the encouragement.

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