Our Couple Experience! Part 1  

EveAndSteve 48M/45F
91 posts
6/15/2006 3:55 pm

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Our Couple Experience! Part 1

Well, we met a nice looking couple a few weeks ago and really hit it off with them. They invited us over to their place to play. We were excited to play because this was our first experience with a couple this time around.

When we got there, they both kept running upstairs and leaving us alone downstairs. Steve and I thought this was odd but we gave them the benefit of the doubt that maybe they were cleaning up before we went up there. We met their roommate, a single male, and we hoped that this wouldn't be an issue during play.

When we finally went upstairs, it was really warm. They explained that they had no A/C, so they opened the windows and the bedroom door. I was uncomfortable with the door being open and the possibility of the roommate watching or joining in. I took a peek out the window and noticed other condos/apts with balconies looking straight into the window. Not only did they tell us that people watch them, but there was someone sitting out there already looking. Steve and I closed the blinds and the door numerous times throughout the night only to be re-opened by the female.

We started playing and everything was fine until they started leaving the room. We couldn't understand why they kept doing that and finally they explained that she was having issues with her man paying attention to me. We were understanding and talked it out with them. They wanted to continue to play, so we did. But they continued to leave the room.

We finally got tired of it and decided to leave. They begged us to stay the night but we were ready to go. They asked if we could hang out again and maybe go to a club.

They seemed like they had issues but they were cool people, so Steve and I decided to give them another chance.

Eve =]

dandy6912000 62M/60F
3383 posts
6/15/2006 4:23 pm

thankyou for writing about your first time, we had ours a few months back, and found some good and some bad,. Guess if it rough the first time, maybe it gets better as time goes on. Part of our problem was the guy kind of forgot the present of his wife, and I, then made afew remarks that didn't set to well with us. One comment being wishing it was just my wife and him, and if it would be nice to come over and take care of my better half when I was gone. That kind of took the sails off the ship for awhile.
Anyway here too better luck the next time, can't let afew ruin the excitment of shareing each other with another. thankyou D&C

sugurkat2 38F

6/15/2006 4:52 pm

Hello! Thank you so much for sharing your experience. My husband and I both belong to AdultFriendFinder seperately and as a couple. We have not yet had our experience. We have a couple of possibles, but nothing is yet set in stone. I want to try it out and have fun, but I can't help but wonder if things might be akward or even scary. I keep telling myself taht if I don't try I'll never know. The most important thing I kepp thinking is that we've been together through many years of wonderful and times that most couples couldn't even hope to survive.

EveAndSteve replies on 6/15/2006 5:05 pm:
The only advice I can give is to make sure that you and your hubby are comfortable. And always remember that when everything is said and done, you are still going home with each other. There are a lot of weirdos out there and don't let one experience sour you. Even though I am soured by this couple, I'm not giving up on the lifestyle. =]

Good luck in your search!

BobbieB52 67M/65F  
23 posts
6/15/2006 7:19 pm

There are some strange folks out there, aren't there? Our first couple of experiences were interesting, not really bad, not really perfect...but a definite learning experience. I hope that it doesn't put an end to your play. Hubby and I talked it over, and decided to contine. Things have turned out well for us, and I hope they do for you, too.

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