a total change of pace...  

Eros40 54F
141 posts
9/8/2006 10:58 am

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9/14/2006 1:48 pm

a total change of pace...

well, hubby and I have decided to explore playing together. So, a new profile was put together today (erospics4u2) and we'll see what happens. I have mixed emotions over this.. there is excitement... the thought of him and a bi women attacking my body or myself and a bi woman attacking his is quite the turn on. Till recently, I've been the type that was not into voyeurism..... even that has changed over the past several months! I'll be the first to admit a monster has been created watching men strip on webcam.... but on the flip side, I must admit (not to mention be totally honest!) that the thought of hubby watching me with another woman is quite the turn on also!! I've been quite open that the major reason I'm on AdultFriendFinder is to explore....explore not just my sexuality, but as many facets of it as I can... ya' only live once!!! So, lots of possibilites with this, and I'm excited to see where they lead to...... On the flip side, I'm also quite nervous.... maybe I'm a whole lot kinkier than hubby is wanting to see!! (I think he already suspects that, though!) There is a bit of fear mixed in with all of this....I think that is just the "unknown" part of it. So, the door has been thrown wide open....... lets see what happens.......................Hope all have a terrific weekend..............E.

lookingkcguy 45M
2 posts
9/9/2006 9:43 am

Mixing other people into your relationship can be a dangerous brew, and my be hard to swallow after it's done. Make sure that you both are absolutely certain you will not have a problem with a third person. Men see sex as a physical act, but tie thier ego into it, make sure hubby's ego can take you being with someone. On the other side women tend to attatch emotion to sex, make sure you are comforatable with the idea of a sexual encounter that does not result in a friendship with that person, or any emotional connection whatsoever. If you feel this is something you both are able and willing to do, best of luck, and enjoy it. Just remember to add more individual sex to stroke his ego and add to your emotional connection to your hubby.

Just my 2 cents.


9/9/2006 4:54 am

Hello again. Like your new profile..had to go check it out. Hope we can eventually find each other on IM at the same time..maybe next week. If you're going to be on cam, too, that would make it even more interesting

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