Today This Blog Mourns  

DustyWidget 61M
4382 posts
8/15/2006 1:28 am

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Today This Blog Mourns

the death of ...




Isn't it instructive how easily a reputation may be damaged by those with evil on their minds intent on causing malice for no other reason but ... I don't know what reason. I've always treated people as fairly as possible.

But look at what's happening? How people are running far away saying 'I never knew him. Never liked him. I was only pretending.'

And then look at the positive comments from those who should know. My oldest Blog friends!

There are reasons why I blocked one certain person from my life and to date I have not confirmed why I did even to AdultFriendFinder.

That will continue. I don't shit on friends. I am an honorable man.

And over the last few days even after what I said became spread around I have received more network invitations and as for the mails!

If any of you question that - I do not care. I am noted in civilian life for my willingness to do the decent thing even when it did me great harm.

Well you all know I am a manic depressive. My kids are away, I'm alone and ...

Today's song The Ramones. Poison Heart

GirlzAllies 40G
618 posts
8/15/2006 2:27 am

Dusty, as always, ppl take advantage of your kindness. It happens to me too. But it didn't stop me from being nice. Coincidently, I've just wrote about Taken Advantagein my blog. Do drop by...

Girlz..... just wanna have fun....

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
8/15/2006 3:32 am

I just dont hope you kill yourself off. I see the Cliticals were burned at the stake this morning. Too bad!

Purry {=}



8/15/2006 4:48 am

People take sides it's human nature, sometimes it takes events like this for people to define their friendships and loyalties. I choose to form no opinion on people based on arguments that I know nothing about but thats just me. Don't allow this to get to you just rise above it and remember that as humans we are all imperfect, secure in the knowledge that you did nothing wrong.

ella1966 52F
1528 posts
8/15/2006 4:50 am

His mind may be getting sicker, but your mind is definitely sicker, even if you got the one up on him...was it worth it, Dusty?...some folks are never really gonna make it in bloggywood no matter how pretty, how intelligent, no matter how good their publicity machine is or what they fuck they do, right? you had the brains, you've got the kids he doesn't have and he has the looks and the charisma and the sex appeal, but who is happier in the long run, you or him? Who's made lots of money? Time will tell, but honestly I don't care - I miss them.

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
8/15/2006 4:51 am

Dusty.....just keep spreading the love like your mama taught you to do! You haven't done anything wrong. You have a great imagination, quick wit....and more important....loyality! Blog on!

ella1966 52F
1528 posts
8/15/2006 4:56 am

In other words, please save me an electronic copy of their complete blog, including all comments and send it to me in Oz, I want to put this in my time capsule for when I am dead, or when as waggypolly reminded me from the Census question last week, when the law allows it in 100 years, people can see what I did in my spare time and maybe neuroscience will have advanced more so that not only will I have no trouble getting up to to attend 8 am lectures, but they will be able to dissect my brain and figure out why I was the way I was....


ella xoxo

MoutnainGirl 39F

8/15/2006 5:58 am

I am so confused, and i hope I don't bring up something bad.. I just need this explained to me.. Are the cliticals bots by Dusty? I don't think that they are by his comment, seems you were joking. People have been assuming he was though. Please help a confused on looker.

You have never done anything but show me kindness and that is all I have for you.

Moutnain Girl

Visit my blog: MoutnainGirl

rm_sexxikritter 53F
2715 posts
8/15/2006 8:01 am

This too shall soon pass.

florallei 100F

8/15/2006 8:54 am

Hello Dusty,

I am your friend and remain as such. You have been gracious and fun and delightful always. I have not bee swayed...

sunshinekzn 59F

8/15/2006 9:43 am

Hi Dusty, I may not be one of your oldest friends but you are the only person I ever gave my email addresses to, You know you are special to me. Here is a big Hug from me Love R..e..e

VTLakesideVixen 61F
458 posts
8/15/2006 1:01 pm

I, too am a loyal friend. You have always been sweet, honest and true with me. Never nasty or perverted or mean spirited!

Dusty you are the whole reason that I started blogging! You know you are the only male on here that I have given my email address to!

You, Dusty are a sweetheart of a man!

Don't let them win!

Hugs to Dusty!


meetmesoon20066 43M

8/15/2006 2:40 pm

I read more than I comment. But this is getting ridiculous, you aren't the first innocent to come under the scrutiny of this group. It's always the same players with the same accusations, with no life, pointing fingers at others so that they don't have to look at themselves. They delight in causing pain. And, they are so continually VERY WRONG. Blog on ignore the Drama Kings/Queens.

rm_Ellenback 60F
966 posts
8/15/2006 4:32 pm

WTF is going on? Here I am, playing 'rental mom' for a week, and I miss everything...?

Sorry you're having some kinda shit going on DW, just chin up and wait it out, hon.



BadAssBlonde1 58F
4989 posts
8/15/2006 4:59 pm


I am not sure what happened but one thing is for sure. If you are a manic-depressive you don't need to let this get under your skin. In other words; can you ignore it? Your concentration will be clouded while working on your book. One more thing, under no circumstances should you stop taking your meds. This is crucial. Ok, I'm done now. Have a pleasant evening and I hope things look up for you. Thus far, I have enjoyed reading your post.

Kind Regards,
Lady Hunter

After all the sex is gone, there is the mind - Lady Hunter / BAB

Copyright © House of Lady Hunter 1998-2009

curiousinlorain7 60F

8/15/2006 5:00 pm

just stopped by to send my hugs

PlaynAgain 55F

8/15/2006 6:24 pm


I've only been in blogland a couple of months and only been a blogger for a little over a week. You're one of the very few people that have found my blog and bothered to comment, and you've been nothing but kind and polite. Being a cautious type, I admit to being taken aback by the charge lodged against you and wondering what I had exposed myself to by interacting with you.

Consequently, I've spent all my time reading instead of posting much and I've come to a couple of conclusions. The first is that there is only one person (through a third party) making specific accusations. There are way more comments either in support of you or neutral than there are negative, and the negative comments seem to be either people jumping on the first person's bandwagon or making unsubstantiated (and unsubstantiatable) accusations. The second is that if you had done what you were originally accused of doing AND if they had the proof they claimed to have your blog would be gone by now. AdultFriendFinder may have a lot of flaws, but setting themselves up to be sued doesn't strike me as one a successful business would allow.

Just because it seems like the right thing to do, I want to put it out for all to see that you are welcome at my blog anytime and I will continue to visit yours.


"Attitude is everything. Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle. Live simply, Love generously, Care deeply, Speak kindly. Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, It's about learning to dance in the rain."

economickrisis 56M

8/16/2006 12:25 am

    Quoting meetmesoon20066:
    I read more than I comment. But this is getting ridiculous, you aren't the first innocent to come under the scrutiny of this group. It's always the same players with the same accusations, with no life, pointing fingers at others so that they don't have to look at themselves. They delight in causing pain. And, they are so continually VERY WRONG. Blog on ignore the Drama Kings/Queens.
A bloke couldnt have said it any better than this feller did.

rm_iwannatellu 46F
933 posts
8/16/2006 2:25 am

I thought I had left a comment here... Must have not, after all.

You know who you are, and what you are. Your friends will stand with you, and I am in that number.

Stand tall in that, and know why you are here. We do. If you look through our eyes, you will see how much support you have.

PrincessKarma 45F
6188 posts
8/16/2006 9:51 am

People will always end up showing their true colors sooner or later. I'm here for you if you need me.

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma

try_ME45 59F

8/16/2006 1:45 pm

I turn my back for 5 minutes and all hell lets loose. I've no idea what has happened but hope you don't let it get to you too much. I enjoy your blogs and look forward to your comments on mine. Keep the faith x

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