Pidgeon Hole anyone?  

DrkWarlord 107M
38 posts
2/7/2006 10:37 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Pidgeon Hole anyone?

I just don't really understand some people. What is up with the biases? I see all these statements like "If you're older than this, or younger than this, or of this race, or of that race, or this size, or that size...." There are a lot of beautiful people out there and I'm not talking about these ephemeral shells that we live in. I mean come on. I know it's cliche but superficial beauty fades over time for all of us. I just think that if we superficially judge people then we miss out on a lot of enrichment and opportunities to broaden our horizons. And the whole age thing boggles my mind. I mean what does a 20, or 30 or 40 or 60 or 70 year old look like? I've seen 30 yr olds that look 45 or 50. And likewise, I've seen people that are 50 something look 30 something. If we say "I'm not interested in anyone over this age" and you ARE of the superficial persuasion, you just never know what you might be missing out on. The whole thing just strikes me as small mindedness and evidence of a lack of intellectual and emotional maturity. Anyone out there agree or am I just blowing smoke?

Footnote: Ironically, a very mature 18 yr old young woman wrote to me, "What's age got to do with sex if we're all adults?"

lonely7142 54M
5 posts
2/10/2006 1:31 pm

Hey man I wouldnt mind if you would get together with my wife for so fun as long as I get to join the fun.

selenakyle 55F
7 posts
2/14/2006 12:36 am

I have posted that I usually date men younger than me. That is because I'm such a wildchild, even though I'm 43, and younger guys are usually the only ones who can keep up with me. I don't just mean sexually, I mean in terms of their desire to go out, raise hell, and have fun nonstop for extended periods of time. I tried to date men older than me, but all the ones I dated were just not as full of fire as I am. Then I met a man on this site who's 2 years older than I am, and he's just like me! We have GREAT sex, and nonstop fun. in fact, we've fallen in love. Consider me a convert.

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