Penis Photos  

DreamDelight29 41M
6 posts
9/5/2005 12:51 am

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6/19/2006 12:12 am

Penis Photos


While skimming through some other male profiles, I saw pages and pages of penis photos. Not a body shot like mine, just the penis. The clear majority of primary photos were dick shots. Far more women on the site express negative feelings for such photos than positive ones. So why do guys keep putting up photos that their target audience does not want?

I think the key reason is gender differences and sexual attraction. Most guys are turned on by a random vagina or breast shot. And expect women are the same way. Generally, this is not the case. A random penis is not enough. The penis of a lover is a different story. Similar gender differences are present in attraction in general, sexual fantasies, relationship goals, emotional component of sex, etc. If I get emails asking for more penis shots, it is almost always the male half a couple. Single women or the female half of a couple ask to see my face.

A related reason is gender differences and sexual arousal. For most men the penis is almost all of sex and sexual arousal. Women tend to be more aroused by other areas -- obviously kissing and breasts, but many less obvious body parts.

Another reason is the connection to self-worth and self-confidence that many men have to their penis. Guys are far more likely to ask people to confirm that they have a good penis or ask people to remark on their penis than women (on their corresponding body parts). An exception is women who have had breast enhancement. I would expect many of such women to include breast shots.

Anonymity is also an important reason. Most persons on this site want to remain anonymous. A penis shot is completely anonymous. A face shot is not.

Queenie1970 47F  
1512 posts
12/10/2005 6:12 pm

I find that while it's good to know "what you're getting" (potentially), I'd rather that someone take the time to write a good profile if they want to maintain anonymity. But well said...I like your blog.

"Sex is emotion in motion." ~ Mae West


rm_tallnslim48 60M
1 post
1/4/2006 7:42 pm

Well stated. There is a genuine difference in how men and women view images.

The adult film industry has long known that the cum shot is for men, not women. The freakish penis size of the actors is nothing more than a prop. Women are the stars. Men and the penis props. The cum shot is for the major audience... men. Remember that all you '100% straight' men.

Classic sculpture underplayed the average size of an adult penis. Centuries of sheltered women were very surprised on their honeymoon, and not in a welcome way. Curious all the furvor about the penis. Up through the 50s and into the 60s, a handsome image like DreamDelight29 would make he and the photographer subject to arrest and jail. Anyone owning the image, too.


rm_W8TNG
(Milsa G)
50F

1/21/2006 10:24 am

couldnt have said it better myself...


rm_sinnerInc 45F

4/27/2006 1:50 am

SWEETIE , YOU KNOW IT'S A HOT SHOT .YOU ALSO KNOW MY FIRST REQUEST IS MEASUREMENTS.I AM WOMAN ! HERE ME ROAR!I'M NOT GOING TO LOOK AT YOUR FACE UNTIL YOU CUM,AND I'M NOT GOING TO LOOK AT ANYTHING BUT YOUR COCK UNTIL THAT MOMENT.I AM ALWAYS THE ONE THAT THROWS EVERY THEORY OFF,ROCKS THE FOUNDATIONS OF "TRUTHS" AND THOROUGHLY ENJOYS CORRUPTING ALL STRUCTURES OF CLASSIFICATION.WHAT CAN I WHISPER IN YOUR EAR AS THE MUSCLES INSIDE ME CLENCH YOUR COCK WITH SUCH FERVER THEY SQUEEZE THE CUM OUT OF YOU WITHOUT CHOICE?OH! DARLING , I WILL DISCOVER.....


tightpussy4all7 54F

6/15/2006 1:43 am

Darlin', I have to agree with sinnerInc on this one. Give me a cock shot to introduce yourself - please! Lol. I even have it in my profile that only messages with cock pics will get a reply.

Why? Because: 1 - it turns me on, and 2 - I want to see what I'm letting myself in for. I can't tell you how many guys have exaggerated their endowment. What? They think I'm not going to notice the discrepency? I've kicked guys out of my apartments when I finally got a look at their "well hung" member. Of course, it could be a purely subjective difference of opinion: My definition of well endowed, or hung, could be very different from theirs.

Don't get me wrong, I love the pic you've posted on your profile, DreamDelight29. In fact, I would love to lick you all over on the basis of said photo - lol. And finding a truly articulate man who has but time and effort into his profile is a rarity.

I enjoyed reading your profile - and blog. However, the only time I'll ever ask for a face pic is if I'm meeting a guy in public and want to be able to pick him out of the crowd (which rarely, if ever happens - I usually just invite them to my place and get them naked, hard, and inside me as soon as possible).


rm_codysmiths 66M/55F

3/9/2007 12:24 pm

I happen to agree with you, DreamDelight29. I am most attracted by a torso pic and face pic. Ideally, it's all about getting the whole package (of one's fantasy) and the cock shot should enter the scene so a woman can truly see what she might be getting before a meeting is arranged. But a general body and face pic are the real turn ons.


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