The Age Thang...  

DoveOK 58F
393 posts
8/15/2006 10:49 am

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8/17/2006 9:43 am

The Age Thang...

Why do people read your profile.. see what your preferences are.. be it sexual.. race.. or age.. etc.. then contact you when they do not come near your wants..

I have met some great people online that I am not attracted to sexually.. but we have things in common.. and we chat and email and are friends. I don't jump every person that contacts me as I'm sure ya'll don't either. I've met some great ladies here that I keep up with because we have common goals and interests. I find women downright funny as hell.. and I learn alot from them.

What I am referring to is very young men who contact me then get angry when I don't want to boff em. I do love young people.. hang out with em all the time. I have girlfriends that only prefer to date younger men. I don't have a problem with it. I just am not attracted to them. Several of the young men that have emailed me are very darling.. they took rejection very well and some are even on my IM.. What bothers me is the ones that become hateful and abusive when they don't get into my cyber drawers.. or an invite to a fuck fest. I do try to be nice.. which is difficult because I am a redhead..

How do you handle it? Any suggestions as how to handle it.. or should I just blow it off and be a real bitch?

42 posts
8/15/2006 12:22 pm

i say be a bitch and contact me again. i am coming to enid the first part of next how bout ya!!

ZZ_Todd 60M

8/15/2006 1:36 pm

    Quoting rm_jlg3682:
    i say be a bitch and contact me again. i am coming to enid the first part of next how bout ya!!
Yep... I see what you mean. For guys like this, use one of those automatic reply options; don't even bother reading it... and when they come back (because they will come back) then you'll be able to block them. Another way is to set up your email filters to exclude anyone who doesn't match your cupid settings.

The point is, you don't have to turn into another one of the so-called bitches that rants about this stuff when the solutions are really so simple. And, you don't have to put up with idiots like what's his name above.

rm_otis169 61M
3 posts
8/15/2006 2:25 pm

I am sure that you will make the right choice, but this should be your choice.

johnbob00 63M

8/15/2006 4:30 pm

I can't see you being a REAL bitch anyway.... it would just be acting like one.. Turn on the auto reply and move on to better things. I am sure the redhead in you enjoys much better things anyway...

42 posts
8/15/2006 4:49 pm

wow!!! hey zz you got my response all wrong. i would never pester this lady or anyone for that matter. my response should have been, do what you feel is right and let wisdom guide you. i am glad you stepped in there like the little lone ranger you try to come off as.

tommytutone78 40M
3 posts
8/15/2006 8:07 pm

i don't know what your preferences are, but i would be up for getting to know you and meeting you

DoveOK 58F

8/15/2006 8:09 pm

well ty zz.. and all.. jlg darlin.. I've tried to contact you.. perhaps I have the email all wrong.. I am lysdexic..

Huggs... Cris

Danny2458 32M

8/16/2006 9:49 am

i am young and when a woman tells me i'm to young for them i don't get all pissed off. it is at times frustrating but i'll get over it.

HeatedCondition 62M
890 posts
8/16/2006 11:41 am

I'm not young so I guess this doesn't apply to me.

Nevertheless, I don't have to handle rejection because I don't get rejected, mainly because I'm not getting replies (yet) to begin with.


DoveOK 58F

8/17/2006 9:43 am

I must add.. that there are so many nice young men that have been so sweet.. I in no way mean to say that all have been rude.. in fact some are great friends..

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