Learn the master strokes  

Djeeper1987 48M
3389 posts
6/26/2006 8:48 pm

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6/27/2006 5:00 pm

Learn the master strokes

A man who's great at oral sex is a man a woman wants to keep around. "Forget everything you've seen in porn flicks," says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., a clinical sexologist and the author of She Comes First. "When you go down on a woman, make your first lick a slow and tender, full 'ice-cream' lick -- start at the base of her vaginal entrance and work your way up to the top. As you go over the clitoral head, brush it lightly as if your tongue were a feather. Don't think of oral sex as foreplay, think of it as core-play: a complete act of lovemaking that can lead her through the process of arousal to orgasm."

Most tongue strokes are vertical. Brisk horizontal licks back and forth across the clitoral head will inflame her.

Work the entire vulva with short, repetitious licks. Save the clitoral head for last, then apply more focus and pressure.

Let your index finger trail behind your tongue. The finger's hardness will create a pleasing contrast after your soft tongue. Start with simple vertical and horizontal strokes, then try more complex paths.

Let your tongue rest firmly, flat against the full length of her vaginal entrance. Let her move and grind against your tongue.

Carpe Diem

pretty_blue_eyes 39F
2091 posts
6/26/2006 10:16 pm


BaronessK 53F

6/27/2006 3:19 am

I think the doc is a crock! A man great, or even good, at oral sex...is a man who is paying attention to his partner's movements, expressions, and all the rest...THAT will 'tell' him what he's doing good and/or great. If a guy is so busy thinking, okay here I lick sideways then slight pressure here then harder then back...he is NOT paying attention to HER {signals, movements, expressions, etcetera}.

I have had some guys who were bad at oral and bad at sex in general, some who would not do oral {or let it be done on them} but who were fantastic at sex {because they payed ATTENTION to ME during it!}, and others {like J}...OMG! The man is...'the man!'.

clitalicious67 50F

6/27/2006 3:31 am

THUD!!! I just fell outta my chair!

MaggiesWishes 61F

6/27/2006 7:21 am

I see wanna see "hard evidence" ... not budging on that.

warm huggies 2ya

MWWwantmore 52F

6/27/2006 7:41 am

HMM something I dont get at home!

I'll have a cafe, mocha, vodka, valium latte to go please!

Good girls go to heaven.....bad girls go down!!

NSAAddict 43F

6/27/2006 9:57 am

this sounds about right to me

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