I don't understand  

Djeeper1987 48M
3389 posts
7/30/2006 1:45 pm

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I don't understand

What is the big deal with women liking LARGE COCKS?
I am a size 6 hard cock. So far, I have come pretty close to meeting ladies that are close by, and when they ask. I tell them the truth. And they say sorry hun, I prefer larger.


There is no luck, I can't get a break. I am done with the site.

Rejection, after rejection, after rejection. Its all I can take. I can't take it anymore. My self - esteem is crushing. I am depressed. I am alone.

This site hurts me too much to continue.

I am physically and emotionally hurting inside. Don't give me your pity, don't tell me it will get better. Don't tell me someone is out there for me. I have heard it all. I have no more to give. I have gotten to the point where I give up. I am done.
I don't want the pain anymore. Sex can go to hell. Relationships can go to hell. I don't need it anymore.

All women what, regardless what I have been told is a RICH, SIX-PACK, 8 OR LARGE SIZE COCK. Well I am not rich, i don't have a six-pack, as a matter of fact I am overweight by 50 lbs, and I am only 6 inch when hard. Don't tell me I am barking the wrong tree. Don't tell me I am doing things wrong. I don't wanna hear it.

good bye. i may or may not return.

I am far to hurt to give a shit anymore.

Carpe Diem

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
7/30/2006 1:51 pm

Djeeper.....if a woman is only concerned with the size of your cock...then she is not worth being angry or hurt over! Truthfully....most women don't even have a concept of what a 6 inch hard cock looks like. And the truth is....if the man doesn't know how to please a woman....the size of the cock doesn't matter...she might as well buy a dildo!

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 3:46 pm:
Perhaps you are correct.


7/30/2006 4:35 pm


I don't have any of that listed as one of my requirements. I won't give you any pity. The only thing I'll say is change the type of woman you keep going for. Most of the time, we all pick the same type of person over and over again and then wonder why we get hurt. I'm not pointing any fingers. I'm guilty of it too. I'm sorry your are depressed and alone darlin'. If you care to chat sometime, let me know. I can be a good friend. Hugs.

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 3:47 pm:
Thanks Hun, I guess my anger was pretty apparent.

cookiequeen1000 54F

7/30/2006 4:59 pm

I've never like playing with the BIG boys. I'm not just that big inside. Your size is just right. I've played with smaller men, and I agree with angel...its not what you got its what you do with it. For me it's the whole package that counts, not just your dick. There's way more to all of us than our genitalia...I like to get all of it involved.

Don't give up yet babe. Heck, get some time off and meet me in Vegas anytime Aug 8-13.

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 3:48 pm:
My birthday is on Aug 13th. Trying to get some time off after. Who knows. I just might come down the friday before? However money is tight. If you see me online tonight, hit me up.

TheCliticals 36F/F

7/30/2006 7:46 pm

Better late than never. See our blog and do NOT DARE leave.


Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 3:49 pm:
You girls are something else. Right on the dot. I do need to improve on my communication and wits. Love ya girls!!

Thanks so much!!!

funintheday2006 57M
9659 posts
7/30/2006 8:14 pm

Yo mate, you ain't on your own.
Give a shit, it's all we got.
I'll mail you.

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 3:50 pm:
Thanks, I got your AdultFriendFinder email. Its pretty cool. I know there are many of us out there that are going thru what I have been thru so far. Your email made me wake up a bit.

Thanks Again. I sure will stop by your blog often and visit. Cheers!!

Balibabe19 43F

7/30/2006 8:46 pm

Maybe the bar is a lil too high for those people who have rejected you and in turn they will end up alone..simple math.

I don't know if encouraging words are enough to make you feel better, or if a simple hug would do the trick...but I do know if you let the "pretenders" out there get the better of you then they win. Blogville is a place where people will find you...simple math!!

Stick around and find out and knowing The Cliticals...soon you will have that much traffic headed your way you may find something more than what you wanted... Enjoy the show!!

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 3:53 pm:
I do believe you are right. Rejection does go both ways. However what the Cliticals have done for me, out weights what I am going thru. I am looking forward to giving them a hug.

I am grateful you stopped by, and thanks for the encouraging words.

QueenOfSwords 35F

7/30/2006 8:46 pm

Please dont give in so easily

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 3:54 pm:
Finally cooling off after 24 hours, I feel like I don't want to go away and give up. Its amazing how human emotions can burst hard in you without thinking things thru.

Thanks for the kinds words, hope you stop by often.

MoutnainGirl 38F

7/30/2006 8:48 pm

Well.. Being thrown into this and not really knowing you.. I know everything you are saying. No, I am not a size 0 and no, I am not rich. Sometimes I say stupid things too. So does that make me less of a person and should I give up as well? I dunno.. I am so inline with you its not even funny. I’m already making appointments with Drs about artificial insemination because I do not believe there is a guy out there for me to have children with.. so why not roll the dice?

What I do know is this: there are people that care about you on here despite your lack of meeting people in person. There are people on here that care about what you are going through. We are all going through something.. else we wouldn't be here needing the contact and fulfillment we get from here. And believe me.. feeling like a used piece of meat from guy getting their rocks off every so often isn’t that great of a feeling either. Maybe its different being a guy.. I love sex, but sometimes I want to be treated like a person and not an available hole.

I wish I had better words of inspiration and wisdom.. things suck sometimes. Try to keep your head above it and it will work out. But if you really enjoy writing on here.. you are only hurting yourself and the people that have supported you.

Best of luck for you, me and all of us lonely people out there.

Moutnain Girl

Visit my blog: MoutnainGirl

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 3:58 pm:
I tend to forget sometimes that what I am going thru others are as well. After reading your comment, I felt you understood me in a way. As I understand you, I love sex as well. However feeling human and experiencing other things in your life are just as orgasmic as sex could be with the right person.
I think one of the major things in my life as I am trying to find someone, I tend to loose myself.
Your words have wisdom in them, and your right things suck sometimes. But I will keep my head up and learn to some hurting myself and bring in the love.
Good Luck to you as well. There is a guy out there for you as there is a woman for me.
If you are ever in California, stop by for a hug. I think we could both use one!!!

rm_goddess1946 107F
13518 posts
7/30/2006 9:04 pm

Everybody has a hair pulling day once in a while..
now and then. So you are normal. I've written notes
to you before telling you what a great guy you are...
with or without your jeep...with or without your cock...

And now....
plan on coming this away for the bloggers meet we are going
to put together for hopefully the middle to the end of Oct!
and in the meantime...know that alot of people here care about
you no matter what it *feels* like...

Sending you love for the night... xo your Goddess1946

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:00 pm:
You are amazing my Goddess. You made me smile, and almost tear. Feels good to know I am normal.
You have one of the best smiles here on blogland next to MaggiesWishes.

Did you mention a gathering in California?


7/30/2006 9:17 pm

what all above said.. ..

under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:00 pm:
hehehehe Thanks MrsMuffland. Good to see you!!!

blueguy1051 61M

7/30/2006 9:31 pm

I can tell you what the problem is, you're going after the wrong women. I'm short, bald, 15 pounds over weight, and OLD, and I have good luck here. But I'm not after narcissistic model types, and I'm willing to deal with a rejection rate of 99%. It's a numbers game. You only need one woman, the right woman, to say yes.

I assume your luck in your walking around world wasn't real great, or you wouldn't be here. Most Cassanovas are doing fine in the bars. So what do you have to lose by sticking around? I have an old post on my blog as to the mechanics of getting responses, and look up an old post by Fireslide.

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:03 pm:
And what a rejection ratio I have so far.
You are right, 99% rejection and 1% yes. Interesting how you put it as a number game. Makes perfect senses.
I will stop by your blogs and learn.
Nothing wrong with learning from others. I like the idea of helping each other out.
I have done it all. Bars, Food Stores, Movie Malls, Concerts, etc. etc.
So I am not going to give up, even thou sometimes it feel like the end of the world. Thanks!!!

rm_sexxikritter 53F
2715 posts
7/30/2006 9:49 pm

DJ, I am sorry that your experience here hasn't been what you expected or wanted it to be. I gotta agree with bicurintx2006. If you are not getting the kind of response you want from the kind of women you want, then perhaps it is time to re-evaluate that kind of woman. Are you here just for the hook ups? Or are you looking for a relationship? What has happened may also be based on that. If a chick is also just looking for the sex, then she may well be looking for the big boys. If you want a relationship with a wonderful, caring, honest, trusting woman...she will truly not care how big it is or isn't.
I can only speak for me. I've had all sizes from 4 to 11 and the length doesn't matter to me. ('cept on the big ones hurting my cervix)
The best fucking has always been with the guys on the thicker side, not the longer ones.

:amn, them are some rude women to come right out and say they are only looking for big dicks::

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:07 pm:

You are too cute!!! After cooling off, and thinking about what happened yesterday. I tend to forget others have there preferences. When I first started AdultFriendFinder, I was looking for a hookup, but after a while I started reading the profiles and blogging. I wanted more. Friendship. If the right woman comes along and the fireworks flare then that would be awesome as well.
I think the best fucking are with the ones you really like and have more feeling with.

earthShiva 60M

7/30/2006 9:58 pm

Everything you say has a basis here. That doesn't make it all true, all the time. It makes it your experience so far. I was hurt the first time I got a "I'm looking for someone younger..." email. I know, if given the chance, I could have rocked that woman's world, because I've proven it in the trenches both before and after. To protect my pride from the constant rejection, I shed my expectations of everyone. The ones who eventually show up are the right ones, and none of the others matter. What they want or expect is irrelevant.

By all means, go pursue an offline life, but it looks to me like you have a following among some of the most attractive, intelligent, sensitive women on this site. Way to go, man! You can't possibly think your best bet is excluding thewomen from this site now...

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:11 pm:
After cooling off from the last 24 hours. I began to think how lucky I am to have met some pretty amazing ladies here. So I am not going to leave. Thanks to the Cliticals.
I like to think of my experiences whether bad or good as something to learn from.

countryheart_71 46F
8081 posts
7/30/2006 11:04 pm

Then they obviously don't know what they missing!!!! *


Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:12 pm:
From all the rejections I have had in my life, I like to think perhaps those ladies were thinking back and say to themshelves. "Gosh I wonder what would have happen with that guy?"

Mauvelilly 49F
1 post
7/31/2006 12:58 am

wow I stumbled across your blog by accident. thought I would say hi. I am a not perfect woman and I am not looking for PERFECT MAN. So if u ever come back to the site just send me a line.

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:15 pm:
Here let me help you from that stumble and get you back on your feet.
I am not a perfect man, nor am I looking for a perfect mate. Just friendship and whatever else happens.

I will be sure to come and visit your blog.

papyrina 52F
21133 posts
7/31/2006 1:23 am

stop looking for women to have a relationship for now ,keep blogging and making new friends.

In a friend you may find a partner

As for 6 inches,its not going to damage a womans cervix,its not going to make her choke too much on a deep throating special and if in to anal so much more comfotbale,see straight away a few positives to 6 inches

i will admit i like my men friends on the slim side,not skinny and i can live with out the six pack as i know its hard work to get and i don't want my lack of six pack showing up next to his,so why not try a keep fit type month,join a gym and get some nutrian advice ,its a wonderful way of metting new women ,honest ore women in the gym i go to than guys lol

As some one else said on here is a numbers game,men are so many more than women members,so we women get spoilt and a wee bit too fussy as we have choice,a bit like shopping for tomatoes,you have to squeeze a few rotten soft ones before finding and appreciating a good firm one.

Don't give up ,think positive and blog on

I'm a

i'm here to stay

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:17 pm:
Would you care to be a work out buddy then?
Thanks for the advice. I know everyone is different when it comes to finding something. Whether its friendship or whatever.
And you are right, there are more men then women. So the men have their work cut out for them.

I will not give up, I will think positive, and blog on baby!!

BaronessK 53F

7/31/2006 1:33 am

All women that you have evidently talked to lately, jeepers...not ALL WOMEN! *sigh* For example, Mauvelilly {above}...her first post, and maybe even her first blog to visit...like I said, you have to get out there, in every way, to find what you want {once you figure out what that is}. How is giving up going to solve the 'problem'?

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:18 pm:
Will you just pass me a beer already.

Just kidding!! Good to see you hun. I notice you are not on yaho much anymore? Been busy?

tootsiedippin 54M/54F
1078 posts
7/31/2006 1:45 am

Hang in there. Not all of us women folk are as shallow as all that. Many of us look for what is inside and give that far more weight. In our profile I specifically say I am NOT interested in a well endowed man. I preferr the adverage the guy as well as a guy with some meat on him. Hell, if I wanted to snuggle a skeleton I'd go to the graveyard and dig one up. Lastly, to me the best thing you can spend on me is time. It is far more valueable then anything purchased. It can never be replaced. So if you choose to spend time with me just walking around the block talking I am thrilled. You gave me a peice of you.


Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:19 pm:
Thanks Hun,
Be careful of those skeleton they can be a rib tickler.

wistfuljester 65M

7/31/2006 2:05 am

I understand the sentiment. Sometimes, cock size is all you see mentioned as being important to local women.

You know what? This site is only one small part of the ways to meet women. If you can't find a decent, caring woman with reasonable expectations here, that's only a tiny part of the whole picture.

Get out there. Be yourself. You WILL find someone, if you're where you can be found.

And this site, my friend, AIN'T IT.

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:20 pm:
I agree, this site is only 5% of the ways I am trying to meet up with woman.

Thanks Wistfuljester!!

JuicyBBW1001 55F

7/31/2006 2:47 am

Hmmm sounds like we are in the same boat only because I am not a Barbie and I don't guarantee sex on the first date. Hang in there though and keep blogging someone worthy of all of you will come along.


Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:22 pm:
Goes boths ways. I tend to forget. I am going to keep bloggin. BTW, I only see 4 fingers, wheres the thumb.


ShyWhisper2006 54F
15175 posts
7/31/2006 3:15 am

I was disappointed at first and even since I joined here...I wanted to leave and just forget that i even heard of this place...i was angry and hurt and wrote about it ..and the bloggers came to me...not in droves..but the ones that came to me were awesome and made me see that I was alright just the way I am...and I am ever grateful for that...am I looking and being successful here? No...lol I am not even the slightest successful...but the ones that visit my blog and write to me there are great and make me feel listened to and appreciated...
tis a sorry day when one feels that they need to leave...but the choice...is still yours ...Be well and take care...*smiles*

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:24 pm:
I figured somewhere along the line women were having it tough as the guys. I just need to remember that.
Thanks to the Cliticals, I am not leaving. I am just going to stick to the blogs and make new friends.

Thanks for stopping by New Friends. Stop by more often.

mickdevil 51M/53F
3496 posts
7/31/2006 3:18 am

    Quoting tootsiedippin:
    Hang in there. Not all of us women folk are as shallow as all that. Many of us look for what is inside and give that far more weight. In our profile I specifically say I am NOT interested in a well endowed man. I preferr the adverage the guy as well as a guy with some meat on him. Hell, if I wanted to snuggle a skeleton I'd go to the graveyard and dig one up. Lastly, to me the best thing you can spend on me is time. It is far more valueable then anything purchased. It can never be replaced. So if you choose to spend time with me just walking around the block talking I am thrilled. You gave me a peice of you.


seems to me you have made some pretty good friends here

Mick & Devil FWB
click me

Just Living Life

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:24 pm:
I am begining to see that. I guess I was blind from the rejections.

Thanks MickDevil. >

curiousinlorain7 60F

7/31/2006 3:50 am

Geez I really don't fit into the normal category of what men want.. and i certainly have my dark days and thoughts about it.. but the only way out of them is by the support of good people that I've found here.. and by reading some amazingly funny, sad, light, heavy...any type of blog you need... right here.. And to me, size does matter... but only the size of the heart. Please do not give up...

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:26 pm:
The heart grows fonder from all the love in your life. I am not going to give up now thanks to everyone who has stopped by.

mycin62 55F

7/31/2006 4:07 am

Well, for what it's worth, here's my two cents. I don't like big cocks, in fact the smaller the better for me. Your 6 incher would be just fine.

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:27 pm:
Thanks mycin, sorry I haven't been to your blogs lately. So many to comment.
I am going to add you to my watch list.

2375 posts
7/31/2006 4:33 am

I think the others have said it all, but just in case, here it is. I couldn't care less how big or small a man's cock is. That's something that nature decided and has nothing to do with who they are. I'm very small, 5'3, 115 lbs. I'm no model, not the cutest girl on the blogs. What I DO have is a strong sense of humor and a love for sex. I prefer to get to know somebody because their personality is what attracts me and I think most women would agree. These women who said that are obviously slam-hounds who think THEY have it all going on. Not so! I don't care for skinny men, but I don't base my sexual attraction on something that shallow. Some men don't like skinny women, and if they're like that, I move on. Stick around sweetie, the REAL women are here, you just have to get past the stupid ones!

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:30 pm:
You just made me feel so much better. Thanks hun!!! I think you are on to something!!!

JeersPilarSaver 36F

7/31/2006 6:09 am

c'mon dont give up. believe or not..whats count is inside right?? and that still what most woman need from man. head up!

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:33 pm:
I figure it was more whats inside then outside. I just get slap in the face with the outside shit.

Thanks Mystic. I am not going to give up!

SingleNLooking72 107F

7/31/2006 6:55 am

If you leave, promise me you're cumming to Mz LJ's House of Ill Repute! Damn, 2000 miles is a long way, but I promise I would make it worth your while. As for the Jaime Pressly fantasy, hell, I'd have to do her too! Hmm, 6" but thick? I'll take that any day over the pencils! Seeing as I'm a "G girl".....

Damn, what a man....Please don't leave me!

{=} Mz LJ

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:34 pm:
Your too cute. I am not going to leave. And 2000 miles is far, but our new friendship is right away the block.

rm_AnOddGirl 58F
3469 posts
7/31/2006 11:11 am

I like an average length. Like a lot of women too long is toooooooooooooo long. I prefer width.

I suggest getting a dog (good for attracting women without using a pickup line) get out to the dog park, chase the dog (good for the body), get a tan, and know that there are a lot of folks here that understand and support you!

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:36 pm:
I figured the thickness would do the trick. However all women are different. I just keep forgetting that.

I wish I could get a dog, however in the apt complex I live in they don't allow them. One day I will get a Canine. Thanks for your kind words. I feel pretty good having all of you stop by and support me.

MWWwantmore 52F

7/31/2006 11:44 am

Sorry you are feeling dejected

Size is not a huge issue to me either, nor are 6 pack abs. If anything just stay on here to blog with your friends!

I'll have a cafe, mocha, vodka, valium latte to go please!

Good girls go to heaven.....bad girls go down!!

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:38 pm:
Your right, I am just going to blog and stick with all of you. Group hug?

RubyRedPetal 45F

7/31/2006 1:07 pm

Im sorry this site has messed with your head. I think everyone has pretty much said everything already but i for one do not look for any if the things u listed. I find it impossible to define my physical ideal, its about the whole person for me. I wouldnt say i do NSA, i have strings and i know it and so do the people i sleep with...maybe thats the difference. Best wishes babe. xx

* *

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:39 pm:
You are right, we all have strings whether we what NSA. My head is clearing up a little.
Best wishes to you hun.

spacecadet561 61M

7/31/2006 2:38 pm

Dude, welcome to the club. Keep looking. New women join AdultFriendFinder daily. I've not managed a real-world meet yet, but at least got an interesting local connection after 4.5 months here. She's not one who looks like a very good match according to AdultFriendFinder's cupid settings, but a degree of interest makes up for a lot of other differences, at least for getting started.

This pubic service announcement brought to you courtesy of TheCliticals.


Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:40 pm:
Thanks. You are right, plenty of woman joining all the time. Just don't give up and be positive.
When are the Club Meetings? I'll bring the keg.

real36CgirlPA 39F

7/31/2006 3:10 pm

You can't leave, Djeeper. You have to at least stay and blog with us!

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:42 pm:
I am not going to leave. Love ya babe!!

florallei 100F

7/31/2006 4:15 pm


Did you know the facts about the average size of a penis? It is only 2.5" hard erect...yeah true...new statistic...I should write a post on this you think? So if you are a 6"...shit my dear man you are magnanomous!!!Party on big guy wink ya know what I mean?

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 4:43 pm:
Never been called that. hehehehehe

Thanks babe, warms hugs to you!!!

catkit13 67F

7/31/2006 4:19 pm

stick around for the blogs, friend, that's what i'm doing. and btw, i'm a sexy, cute 56 y/o and i've NEVER asked a man about his size! for me, it's about the kisses, caresses, touches . . . )
keep on blogging, you'll make all sorts of way-cool new friends!

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 6:02 pm:
I do love to kiss. Thanks and I will stick around for the blogs.

rm_4it921 62M
1371 posts
7/31/2006 4:50 pm

Hey man if the cliticals are on your side you must have something going for you.

If women dont like the size of your cock then fuck them. Oh hang on thats fuck'em as in bollocks not fuck them as in naughties and stuff. Oh what the hell fuck them.

Cheers mate keep your chin up and other things.

xxxxx's in a manly matey sort of way.

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 6:03 pm:
Right fuck em all.
I know what you mean, in the manly matey sort of way. A pat on the back.

Thanks and Cheers. Have a cold one tonight!!

florallei 100F

7/31/2006 5:01 pm

PSSSSSSSSST DJeeper, come over to my blog please...I got a surprise for you Hun...Luv Ya!!!'
florallei (Behind The Mask)

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 6:04 pm:
Flo you are too good to me. Expect a hug from me if we ever meet.

Addy19742 44F

7/31/2006 5:32 pm

I totally agree with what all these wonderful people have said. Sorry I am so late to post. I was out of town. Please don't go!!!!!!!!!!!! I know I don't require things like that, or put limitations on people I meet. That is a bummer. That is there loss, not yours.

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 6:04 pm:
No reason for you to apologize. Glad to see you!!

JuicyBBW1001 55F

7/31/2006 5:43 pm

I will never tell where my thumb was during that picture my lips are sealed.


Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 6:04 pm:
heheheeh you are a tease.

spacecadet561 61M

7/31/2006 6:43 pm

Club meetings are almost nightly (US time), usually in the polyamory chat room, but sometimes migrate to other rooms. You might also look for chat rooms that cover your geographic area, or groups that cover your area or any interests you might have.


Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 6:48 pm:
Thanks my friend!!

bipolybabe 56F

7/31/2006 6:57 pm

Hey, don't give up, Dude!

It's only here on AdultFriendFinder that you've got bad odds. There are 10 men to every 1 woman. Aren't you near the Bay Area? If so, just change your location to being in SF, and you'll have swarms of women who are tired of learning that the hunk over there is gay.

Now, about cock size, there are superficial women who are "size queens," particularly in the case of casual encounters. If you're looking for more than a one-time event, you'll find plenty of women who are more interested in your desire--and ability--to please a woman than in the length of your dick.

Now, if the question is about your ability to please a women, then come talk to me, baby.



Check out my blog Bi-Poly-Babe for more sensual, sexual pleasure!

Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 7:05 pm:
She just brought it up. It was not a question in my mind. I like to think I have a natural ablility to please a woman.

JuicyBBW1001 55F

7/31/2006 7:26 pm

moi a tease why I never


Djeeper1987 replies on 7/31/2006 7:39 pm:

rm_KarmoHunny 56F
888 posts
8/1/2006 12:59 am

Glad you're feeling better and have decided not to leave, Jeeper. Sorry you have been having such a hard time meeting someone. The people here have said it all. I just wanted to show you some support. Have you thought about befriending a larger woman? We're pretty nice people, ya know.

Blog on, dude!

Djeeper1987 replies on 8/4/2006 3:39 pm:
Don't get me wrong, I am simply looking for a woman. Doesn't matter her size. Just as long as she has a brain.

VTLakesideVixen 61F
458 posts
8/1/2006 3:21 am

Dejeeper, I am fairly new here so I haven't gotten around to a lot of blogs, but I am glad that you won't be leaving! Like all of the other women have said here, it is not the size that is important.
It is what you do with it that is important. Actually here is another way to think of it--those women--think small glove and big hand! After a while, the glove fits, then it is not tight and small anymore. What then? The Never-ending Quest for Bigger!!!! Yuck!
At least you can shrink a leather glove--that other thing can't be
shrunk--then what does she end up with?

Oh well--there is my 2 cents. Just keep your eyes and ears open sweetie--a lot of us here are looking for a new friend!

Hugs to you Sweetie!

Djeeper1987 replies on 8/4/2006 3:40 pm:
Welcome to Blogville, thanks for your 2 cents worth. It is a never ending quest.

lelu_ 52F

8/1/2006 8:05 am

Sends out a big HUG and Kiss to you .... Im sure your 6 is just fine .... Humans can be crule but not All are .... Seems like you will be in a better place with this now .... Take Care ~ lelu ~

Djeeper1987 replies on 8/4/2006 3:40 pm:
Hugs back to ya babe.

clitalicious67 50F

8/1/2006 6:51 pm

Damn everything happens when I am gone...I am glad to see you are still around...and I won't give you the standard "it will get better" but you do deserve better...no pity for you...only for those that haven't taken the time to get to know what an amazing person you are...



Djeeper1987 replies on 8/4/2006 3:41 pm:
Wait weren't you in my bed?

MaggiesWishes 61F

8/2/2006 12:12 pm

You always have a close friendship with me.
AND you'll be happy to know that the most recent polls studies for men is the "Retro-sexual" look is coming back. It's reported that
WOMEN want REAL MEN, in looks and body types and guess what ... YOU are ahead of the trend! Who knew it was your style all along? See what woman are missing out on ... you were a hidden gem!

I've not been around on the Yhoo much, due to a personal work project, but you know I'm here for you.

warm huggies 2ya sweet darlin'
Thank you for your "Blog-footprint"

Djeeper1987 replies on 8/4/2006 3:41 pm:
I know your there for me babe, and I am there for you when you need me.

ShaneLiveLife 51M

8/4/2006 1:48 pm

The human mind works in strange ways ....

We always think that the grass is greener on the other side of the valley

.... but it isn’t necessarily so ....

Rich/poor, beautiful/ugly, large/small ....

.... doesn't automatically mean more success with women or happiness

Happiness only comes from the human soul

.... and the decision to simply be happy independently of your circumstances

Live with passion !

Djeeper1987 replies on 8/4/2006 3:42 pm:
Thanks man, I agree. I just need to hear it more often.

LTsGirl915 35F

8/4/2006 2:45 pm

Darlin', let me tell you, a large cock is NOT the most important thing I am looking for in a man. AT ALL. Neither is a 6 pack, or $$$. If any of those were true, I wouldn't have found my boyf here, because he's a fresh LT in the Army (not that well paid), and while in good shape hasn't got a 6 pk, and I didn't see his cock, nor did I want to, until we had sex for the first time. I know a few guys IRL, including my estranged husband, and my current boyf, who have tried their asses off on this site, only to get rejected again and again. These are great guys, as I'm sure you are, but this site is no different than the bar scenes, we women have WAY more to choose from, and that alone means we have to reject a large number of men. Women suck, and I apologize for my sex for making you feel defeated.

Djeeper1987 replies on 8/4/2006 3:44 pm:
Thanks for the kind words, I visited your blog. No reason to apologize. Goes both ways.

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