Fantasy or Fiction? What would be the perfect mate for you? Soulmate?  

Djeeper1987 48M
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5/4/2006 5:48 am

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Fantasy or Fiction? What would be the perfect mate for you? Soulmate?

Lately I have been thinking a lot of what my future lover, partner, or whatever might look like.
As crazy as that sounds, I am sure each and everyone of you think the same thing too. I mean come on, most of us single folks think way too much. However I am sure the couples and especially the married couples dream of another type of mate.
I have always pictured my woman to be beautiful inside and outside with a crazy sense of humor, and is intelligent. She would have to love sports as much as I do, and enjoy some of the things I enjoy vise versa with her as well. Compromise is a big thing for me, however in my past relationship that was not the case with her. Anyhow, moving on. I dream that she would love me as much as I would love her and I would not worry about some of her flaws as I am sure we all have one or two of them. No one is perfect. Gosh, I just want her to know what I am thinking as I would do with her. I would be there for her in bad times and good times. I would want the kiss to be perfect everytime we kiss morning on our way to work, afternoon lunch date or a quickie, and evening while we make dinner and of course bedtime/or perhaps a long night of hot steamy sex.
The color of her eyes, would be the feature that tells me the most about her. I could just look at them and smile all day in my dreams.
For now this is just a fantasy woman I have been thinking about.
So I was wondering those of you in blogland what would be your ideal mate or soulmate? Do you have that person now, or are you dating him or her? Perhaps you have had one dream all of your life of the perfect mate? I know there is no such thing as perfect, but hell who cares.

Carpe Diem

rm_lovelyLady 65F
434 posts
5/4/2006 9:32 am

I think you have some great ideas here. Just be paitent..... I'm sure she's out there somewhere...... and when the time is right.....

Mmmmmmmmm lookin forward to that special moment!
xoxo LL

MaggiesWishes 61F

5/4/2006 10:33 am

Ahhhh.... the perfect one!
I have a picture in my mind, but then ... I'm looking for that inside shot.
It will happen, time, patience and as we ladies say, "kiss lots of toads" in your case ... maybe dragonflies are fittin'. They are kinda cute

warm huggies 2ya

rm_Kissmystuff 62F
1435 posts
5/4/2006 11:07 am

Thank you for visiting my blog and taking time to leave your delicious comment.

There's a list I have taped to the wall in my bedroom. It lists the qualities I want in a man. Perfection is not required. What I want is a down to earth..real live human man...who can love me much as I will love him.

Have faith in your dream of your perfect mate. Much of the secret of that dream coming your belief that you are deserving of that person and their love.



sexyariesgirl 59F

5/4/2006 4:08 pm

You know it's funny....I've always thought I was attracted to a man taller than me (I'm 5' 7") with dark hair and eyes....and a kind heart. Well, I was married to that man for 27 years...we've been divorced for a little over two years now. Hmmmm...well that didn't work now did it?? But my Sweet Baby is just a tad bit shorter than me, has salt and pepper hair and the most beautiful blue eyes you ever did see. He isn't anything like the man I thought I would end up with, but you know what? He's absolutely PERFECT for me! He has the kindest heart of any man I've ever known, and damn the best part is he loves ME warts and all! Says he wouldn't change a single thing about me....he's brave too! lol

Don't lose hope darlin...the right woman is out there for you...I know she is!

Power To FOK

sleekmako 41F

5/4/2006 8:32 pm

It changes over time , as you change .
The man I married years ago is not the man I would pick right now .

I try not to think about ideals I guess , but I fantasize every now and then

1973GAL 45F

5/5/2006 7:49 am

I agree that we all change as we get older...the guys I used to pick are not the ones I would pick now...I met a guy about 6 years ago who took my breath away and he was the rebel looking guy--long hair, goatee/moustache, a tad taller than I am and skinny...He was amazing and so knew how to make me feel that special way--Wish I met him a few years earlier before I was married LOL

Then recently I met a guy who stole my being--he is amazing and incredible and married! LOL...I know some of you are like hey wait a minute, you both are married--yeah but in this world it would have been nice if we were not--It was his eyes and the way he looked at me...Clean cut, business man...

So who knows what your perfect mate may look like--just wait and you will find her--you will just know that she is the one you want to be with and she makes you feel amazing !!

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