Could you ever be friends with your ex lover?  

Djeeper1987 48M
3389 posts
4/11/2006 5:00 pm

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Could you ever be friends with your ex lover?

As I get older and realize how important life is, you realize as adults we wonder once you have slept with your lover, but then later on you broke up. Then looked at each other and still could be the best of friends? So are you still friends with your ex-lover?
Yea, I am the best of buds with my ex-gf
Yea, I am the best of buds with my ex-bf
Neutral, hope it never comes to that point
No, no way I ain't friends with my ex-gf
No, no way I ain't friends with my ex-bf

Carpe Diem

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
4/11/2006 5:44 pm

Not friends at all.

Purry {=}


Djeeper1987 replies on 4/11/2006 7:05 pm:
But I know we be good friends...hehehehehe

its_a_go 38M

4/11/2006 6:11 pm

Its been about 5 years since we were together, but we've been friends most of those years. The occasional threesome doesn't really complicate things either. I guess we've come to terms over the way of things.

demonicsexkitten 43F
10689 posts
4/11/2006 6:16 pm

i made it a habit, from ex b/f #1, to be friends. umm... with the exception of b/f #2... he was a jerk. and even had i wanted to try being friends, the fact that my breaking up with him made him fair-game for all the guys that hated his guts to beat him up... which they did... would have made it impossible. Other than him i've remained at least on friendly terms with all of them, though most fall by the wayside after a while. But I'm still best friends with one of them (though we're mostly not talking now in an attempt to save his relationship with his g/f). the "jealous other" does tend to mess up such friendships. and sometimes remaining friends hurts a bit too much.

lyciastorm 33F

4/11/2006 6:17 pm

No, I'm not friends with him. There's no way.4

rosskf001 50M

4/11/2006 6:51 pm

still friends with all my ex's even my ex-wife

giasine 43F

4/11/2006 7:07 pm

No way, no how.

When it's over, it's over.

Get outta my life...

rm_DarknStar 55F
2823 posts
4/11/2006 8:42 pm

Friends with my Xhubby...Hell NO!

rm_bucfannn 62M/61F
2110 posts
4/11/2006 9:11 pm

Yep One of my closest friends is also my ex-lover. We were together seven years. I couldn't imagine NOT having him in my life. He knows me better than I know myself, and I him. It's interesting, really. After the breakup, I decided not to have contact. I didn't think I could handle it. But, after a few months, I missed him more than I could put into words. Though I am no longer in love with him, I will, however, love him the rest of my life.

RevJoseyWales 70M/67F
14393 posts
4/13/2006 2:51 pm

Yep, still close to ex-wife, and would still fuck her if she'd let me. We separated 29 years ago. As fo ex-lovers, too many to think about. Some yes, most no. Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

buddhamike 107M
7006 posts
4/13/2006 3:22 pm

If you really care about each other you can be good friends even after you decide that you just aren't right for each other. Definitely has worked that way for me.

jennyancarl 32F
8 posts
4/14/2006 5:53 am

i was still friends with my ex when he died, and we still had sex every now and then even we we both were with someone eles.

sugarbabyhhh 45F

4/14/2006 6:38 am

i don't have any ex's. still doing them all.

Djeeper1987 replies on 4/16/2006 5:31 am:
Hey what about me? HAHAHA Just kidding!!!

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