Divinitydesires 47F
4872 posts
5/2/2006 5:37 pm

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5/18/2006 8:22 am


I was talking to a friend today about swallowing cum. I've only done this once. He told me that he has never had it done and only knows of one guy who actually has...

So I have to ask....

Men, how many times has a women swallowed your cum?

Women how many times have you done this?
3-5 times
5-10 times
10 + All the time!

im_curious_4u 51M

5/2/2006 9:28 pm

Woo hoo!!! I'm loading up on pineapple, bananas, and mangos and coming over.

bedroomice2003 45M

5/3/2006 1:45 am

It's one of the most incredible gifts a woman can give to a man, but it's also got a bad :

Because it's so prevalent in mainstream porn, some men take it for granted rather than accepting it for the beautiful act it is.

Also, some people simply cannot bring themselves to do it due to an aversion, or the belief that it's dirty and shameful.

Militant feminists cry about how humiliating and demeaning it is, since apparently anything which brings a man pleasure is misogynistic and oppressive.

And others simply don't like the way semen tastes or its texture, which varies from individual to individual.

Your first experience probably wasn't all that thrilling, and not all women enjoy it. Some women have told me they used to not do it or spit it out until they discovered how much they enjoyed pleasing their partners this way. Others told me they would gag because they weren't used to the taste and the texture and since avoided it altogether.

What's important is what you think about it. Does it turn you on to please your man this way? Does it turn him on?

I would love to be a fly on the wall and hear your conversation with your girlfriend about this subject.

HeardLankaMalls 56M
2925 posts
5/3/2006 7:37 am

I've had oral sex where someone has swallowed more than 10 times, but it's not a prerequisite or necessity with me during sex (but I do enjoy it ).

I enjoy giving pleasure as much as getting (sometimes more ) and if someone isn't into swallowing, there's alot more to do than worrying about just that

rm_clitoral_man 52M
605 posts
5/3/2006 9:05 am

Only had 3 lovers who really desired and enjoyed swallowing. Of them, only 1 who seemed to want to swallow every time. Others did it out of curiousity, heat of the moment, or for my reaction or pleasure. My guess is that it's far less common in "real life" than you'll find here on AdultFriendFinder...all the more reason to be here!


5/3/2006 12:22 pm

I seem to have a knack for attracting those that have an aversion to it . Even though I have a history of not expressing my feelings about the act overtly to them I've always taken their disdain for the act in a rather personal way.

With my background thoughts being "if she was really into me she'd do it and would absolutely love doing it too"

I guess I should have expressed myself better as maybe if they knew the way viewed it they would have changed their own thinking about it as well but I guess in some way I had already sort of sold them off as essentially "being the wrong type". "The right type" being someone who does this and actually quite enjoys doing this as a matter of course and who would never not do it and who would need no explaination about the "whys" of it being done.

I alredy always thought it was something extra special in the "grand and glorioius" department but at this point in my life now the rarity and overall elusiveness of the act only seems to continue to make it bacome even more of something of extreme value and desirability. And the feeling remains (whether true or not) that someone who I really matter to is just going to do that no questions asked and no explaination from me given.

Also my bonafide hippy friend who lived through the actual glory of the "seuxual revolution" once told me that the case usually is that girls really have a genuine love of giving head and swallowing or they don't and that trying to change them on this usually will not do too much to alter them. I didn't actually beleive him at fist but I'm now starting to think he may have a decent point to make there.

The cases in which I have heard of real changes taking place in this regard though have all been due to the girl actiually realizing the degree to which doing this actualy pleased their man. So that makes me think that expressing myself on the matter in my past may not have been a bad idea. And even if I had got no results from it I would have at least tried to improve the situation.

I could have tried to communicate better. That sentiment also goes for few other things in those relationships aside from getting them to swallow my cum.

Or I could do something about it now like screen potential female companions by placing something like any girls considering me absolutely must love giving head and swallowing or words to that general effect at the very opening of my profile.

As a final note I'll say that cum swallowing goes beyond it's simple appearance of an act in the usual intellectual or academically thought of sense. It falls flat under that microscope. It instead is a deeply symbolic act reaching into the deepest levels of our consciousness and it is truly archetypical in the Jungian sense of the word.



5/3/2006 12:34 pm

PS. plarigirl has an excellent attitude


rappahannock_man 63M
1102 posts
5/3/2006 12:53 pm

Oh my gawd, enjoyed it countless times, darlin! Its just about the most natural thing in the world!

tucsonletsplay 59M

5/3/2006 1:42 pm

The shear pleasure of getting some head is great. If she wants to swallow, that is her choice, definitely not a requirement.



5/3/2006 3:06 pm

This has now reminded me of a porn film I saw from Germany once. Without fail every girl in that film swallowed and it really made me wonder if this is part of their general education or something over there.

Maybe it should be added to the high school "home economics" curriculum or something.

The last girlfriend I had was such a trooper with giving long and sumptuous blow jobs and then rough riding me to a wet climax of her own cowgirl style that her lack of swallowing just didn't matter. Her own mother had once passed on some wisdom to her when driving her home from her high school graduation ceremony.

SHe told her "be sure to give your man good blow jobs or he'll go somewhere else to get that."

She seemed to really have taken this advice/wisdom to heart.


evil_lolita 35F

5/3/2006 9:00 pm

Generally always, but I do admit there are times where I love the money shot too ...

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Christabel168 45F

5/3/2006 10:38 pm

Now you made me hungry.... thanks a lot divinity!

i_12_lickyou 57M
10 posts
5/4/2006 3:39 am

must admit I am not bothered, nice if they do, fine if they done & had more than one who liked to snowball....but the only important thing is they suck until you pop...

digdug41 50M

5/4/2006 12:28 pm

I have had it done quite a few times and everytime I had it done I almost convlused from the pleasure of it theres nothing like getting your seed sucked out of you, yeah I dont mind giving up the man yogurt as long as she wants a taste of me

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rappahannock_man 63M
1102 posts
5/4/2006 12:32 pm

goddess1946 reported a few days ago a MAJOR NEWS STORY! Forget 'bird flu' -- THIS is what the media should have been buzzing with!

CNN Thursday, Oct. 2, 2003:

[size3]Fellatio may significantly decrease the risk of breast cancer in women

(AP) -- Women who perform the act of fellatio and swallow semen on a regular basis, one to two times a week, may reduce their risk of breast cancer by up to 40 percent, a North Carolina State University study found.

Doctors had never suspected a link between the act of fellatio and breast cancer, but new research being performed at North Carolina State University is starting to suggest that there could be an important link between the two.

In a study of over 15,000 women suspected of having performed regular fellatio and swallowed the ejaculatory fluid, over the past ten years, the researchers found that those actually having performed the act regularly, one to two times a week, had a lower occurance of breast cancer than those who had not. There was no increased risk, however, for those who did not regularly perform.

"I think it removes the last shade of doubt that fellatio is actually a healthy act," said Dr. A.J. Kramer of Johns Hopkins School of Medicine, who was not involved in the research. "I am surprised by these findings, but am also excited that the researchers may have discovered a relatively easy way to lower the occurance of breast cancer in women."

The University researchers stressed that, though breast cancer is relatively uncommon, any steps taken to reduce the risk would be a wise decision.

"Only here's definitely fertile ground for more research. Many have stepped forward to volunteer...."

I'll bet they did!

But, but but....! That story ran in 2003? What have those couragous volunteers achieved since 2003? That's what I want to know!

rm_chislut 43F
710 posts
5/4/2006 1:34 pm

ALWAYS. Unless for some reason the guy doesn't want me to, which has happened.
As, evil_lolita mentioned, sometimes they want to go for the porn/money shot.

I always thought it was more of a myth that so many women didn't swallow...?

TheRealThing655 49F
9558 posts
5/4/2006 9:33 pm

Sure, I do it if I feel an emotional and physical connection with a man. Why not try to please him in this special way?

looking4funlovn2 54M

5/5/2006 5:30 pm

Once I cum in your mouth, you can do with it as you like.

If you want me to get instantly excited again and become an animal, look me in the eye while I cum and then swallow it!
Be prepared and wear a seat-belt, because I'll drive you all over that bed, and floor, and kitchen table if you look me in the eyes and swallow!>>!

coolhandluke673 81M

5/6/2006 1:16 am

You forget one thing...the taste. I cantr speak for others, but my cum always tasted good. SUre I know. When I masterbated I always caught the cum in hand and licked it down. Easier than finding a towel. So when I cam in females mouth, I assumed it tasted good to them too. I would always kiss them after they swallowed. It was too exciting not too. Make sense?

LVman4fun76 42M
2 posts
5/6/2006 3:45 am

Where have you been all my life?

hotpassions00 44M
19 posts
5/7/2006 7:19 am

then we an both be happy,u with yr money shot and me with shooting um all over u and having it swallowed

tincan1964 53M

5/7/2006 7:42 pm

I can honestly say that I have never been with a woman that didn't...I guess I should consider myself blessed in that reagard...

rm_BangLnight 54M

5/8/2006 12:27 pm

I have been swallowed many times, but most of the time not. I have only met I woman whom had a strong desire and an obvious craving....and she was not good at it but awesome! The others swallowed out of curiosity and because it turns me on to watch a woman eat me!

needmore286 59F

5/17/2006 3:10 pm

Yeah rappahannock! I'm going to keep swallowing! lol I love to swallow and my hubby loves for me to do that. If you let me swallow that just gets me that much more worked up.

AngeLtheCrazY 42M

5/20/2006 10:16 am

with my wife - anytime she wanst, mean always.
other girls... depend, sometimes they dont like it

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