What the hell happened?  

Dildo_replacemen 39M
196 posts
7/11/2006 4:40 pm

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7/16/2006 2:26 pm

What the hell happened?

Most of you are probably wondering, where did "the DRmen" go, or perhaps I wasn't missed at all. The truth is; I've been very busy recently. I am moving this weekend/next weekend I need to start/finish packing, I am getting evicted because someone bought my place and is now moving in... so that means I'm out (yes they gave me the legal 2 months notice). So the good news is - I found a place that doesn't require a lease... the bad news is I pay the same rent for a place half the size. So where am I going to put all the furniture I do have - since I have a fully furnished 3 bedroom house - I've decided to give some of my furniture to friends who have "unfurnished" places. Okay, now ordinarily that wouldn't keep me busy (and it didn't). What kept me busy was I've been applying and interviewing for a new job in downtown Toronto (I don't live there, I live 2.5hrs outside)! I've had a couple interviews thus far and they seem very promising, however all of them will require that I move once again. So, I've been traveling a lot, interviewing, finalizing my current place to live and then looking for a place to live when I get this new job! Oh, not to mention the myriad of birthdays (including mine) and weddings (no sadly not me) that usually keeps my summer weekends occupied. And lastly, work... seems my boss found out about my applications to other companies... I wonder how that happened... perhaps it's because he's one of my references. Anyway, he's put a time crunch on me to initiate contracts, task projects, finalize resources, etc that I wouldn't have starting until the fall (not to mention we have a verbal agreement that I will give him 2 months notice if/when I leave). And here I was hoping to take a holiday... oh well, screw that!

Yah, that's my life in a nutshell right now. Chaos abounds and everything I know will have changed by Christmas. My mom's getting married (I just found out 2 weeks ago, she found out 2 weeks + 1 day) and moving to Scandinavia, my youngest sister is moving to Europe to live with her boyfriend, my twin sister just bought a place with her boyfriend in Toronto they move in a month, and I'm moving into downtown Toronto so I can at least be close to an airport to see my family overseas - yes I fly a lot (I'm a very family orientated person, they are everything to me).

So what hasn't changed in my life... I'm still single! - Ain't life a bitch!

rm_chanda69 49F
418 posts
7/11/2006 8:42 pm

i sooo understand about life getting crazy!!!

speaking of getting crazy, since we DO work together now at chubbylover53's, how about you show me your bar & i show you my favorite playroom??? (batting eyelashes)

come see me....



Dildo_replacemen replies on 7/12/2006 4:39 am:
Hey Chanda, my bar is always open - I'll show you how I mix drinks and pour my shots. Which is your favorite play room? And do I get an employee discount?

pretty_blue_eyes 39F
2091 posts
7/11/2006 10:09 pm

Dang, you have been busy. Good luck on the interviews! I think you might not should give your furniture to friends yet, what happens when you get a job in Toronto and move in another 3 bedroom house? Or at least a bigger place than the one you are currently moving into.

Its been great working with you. lol. Maybe one of these days after work we could hang out sometime. lol.

Dildo_replacemen replies on 7/12/2006 4:43 am:
Oh these are true friends, so if I ever asked for the furniture back they'd be happy to give it to me. But honestly, I won't be asking for it back for years to come. I'm looking to buy a condo and I have no need for 3 bedrooms.

And Blue Eyes, I'd love to hang out some time.. perhaps a drink.. wait a minute I'm a Bartender (drinks are free), what would you like and how would you like it?

Peche85 32F

7/14/2006 4:22 pm

I missed you! Actually I was disappointed that I logged in for the first time in ages and saw only one post from you! Hehe.

So... could I borrow a couch? I have a big empty corner in my room which would like to be filled by a comfy couch.

I hope it all works out for you and you get a job you love and a house you love too

Dildo_replacemen replies on 7/14/2006 8:39 pm:
Sorry Peches...

I'd be happy to lend you a couch... but that's one thing I'm keeping. You can have the spare bed... I wonder how much fedex charges. lol

I'll add more blogs when I get a chance.

And of course I'm procrastinating right now... Friday night and I'm at home packing.

meerkittykat 43F

7/14/2006 11:52 pm

gawd...you were busy....

good to see you again...and come back and rejoin the insanity of blogville when that real-life crap (ok..maybe not crap-like you said, family is important!!) is settled.

Dildo_replacemen replies on 7/15/2006 12:49 pm:
Kitty, I'll be sure to stop in when things calm down. I'm procrastinating again...

pretty_blue_eyes 39F
2091 posts
7/15/2006 4:25 pm

Are you sure you would want to know what I want and how I want it??? Could be dangerous....

Dildo_replacemen replies on 7/16/2006 7:39 am:
Let me think! - Yes... I want to know all your dirty little fantasies.

sassybelle21 33F  
13313 posts
7/16/2006 12:52 pm

Well I'm still single too. I wonder if I will ever get married which I can already sense that I won't because no guys would want me

Dildo_replacemen replies on 7/16/2006 2:31 pm:
Now why would you say that no guy would want you? Just don't believe in the fairy tail that there is only one sole mate... there are hundreds of thousands. And guaranteed there are men out there just dying to meet you sweetie.

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