Let Me Hear Your Thoughts  

DiamondGirl43070 47F
5 posts
8/27/2005 4:50 pm

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Let Me Hear Your Thoughts

So, I'm relatively new to this site, and just not sure about all of the guys on here. I mean I get email from guys who I see have slept with other women from here and it does kind of scare me. Now, I love sex, but the fear of contracting some disease just puts me off from contacting people who email. What does everyone else think about this? I'm also very shy and timid. I've had several people ask me out and I know that does not mean I have to sleep with them, but is that what most guys are here for? Sex? Long term relationship? Let me hear your feelings on all of this, I'm interested.

MillsShipsGayly 52M

8/28/2005 12:51 pm

Just be upfront with folks, stick to public places and go at your own speed.

You can do it. But you drive your own car and you chart the course!

taurus19512 66M

8/28/2005 7:28 pm

All men on here aren't "dogs in heat". Take your time and get to know someone if that makes you feel comfortable. Be upfront with everyone about what your limits are and practice safe sex if it gets to that point. But most of all have a good time. Speaking for myself, I've met some nice people on here and we're frinds now, so you don't have to sleep with everyone you meet here. Just remember....you make the rules.

1_hardrock_4u 54M  
76 posts
8/29/2005 2:00 pm

just because you meet some one on here doesnt mean you are expected to sleep with them,,,at least that is my opinion. i have met a few very nice woman on this site and we have become very close friends. i have seen one in person several times and 2 more that i am to see very soon. and they know that i expect nothing from them except being a good friend,,,hanging out and having a good time.they feel very comfortable with me because we have taken the time to get to know each other and i treat them with respect,,as a gentleman should.

trust me ,,i know there are alot of rude ,crude idiots on here ,,,but we are not all like that.

good luck with your search,,,and have fun ~~~~~hardrock

digdug41 50M

9/6/2005 2:22 pm

take your time get to know someone if they think its all about the sex off the bat then just tell'em ya gotta git ta steppin cuz it aint that kinda party I'm sure uts harder for women cuz we guys come out the woodwork at you's so be selective and make sure you read there profiles so you have an incling of what it is they want and have fun welcome to blogland

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

rm_TwiztedCharm 57M
456 posts
10/5/2005 3:45 am

As with anyplace you meet people, take a little time and get to know them. Effective communication works wonders, it can be good for the ego and stimulates the mind. Myself I'm pretty new to this place also and don't plan on using as a dating site although through the blogs and magazine I have discovered there are many smart and interesting people who are easy to communicate with. OH and nice picture. Good luck

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