Me here you there  

Devil_MayCry5 37M
29 posts
7/9/2006 9:32 pm

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7/11/2006 2:24 am

Me here you there


"You're in love, but feel virtually single.
You hate going out with the gang,'cause you're usually the only one who's without a partner. You are frequently down and depressed. All symptoms of a long distance relationship!!"

This statement is not really meant for everybody. For me its not a matter as long as we know how to handle this relationship. I know they are thousand of people facing this kind of relationship. Being in a long distance relationship is challenging enough with out having to always think up new, creative and exciting activities that you can do with each other while you are away. Nobody said it would be easy. Any way, here are some funky and imaginative ways to keep that fire burning!

Ok this is what am i doing so far:

1.Communication (phone call)
I will call her oftenly in a week. But, if communication fails (when busy at work or etc), i would try to online chatting with her (if both of us are not busy enough). Then, once a week i will send e-card.

2.Trust
For me this is the most difficult thing to do. But i have to do it and of course she have to do so. I dont want to talk much about this as what i do so far but this is for my lesson and to you guys outhere (if u wish to do so). "You need about fifty times of this virtue than any other relationship. And if you donít trust the person to be faithful, honest and committed about this relationship, not only are you going to be miserable, but youíre going to make the other personís life hell as well. And itís best to get out before the bitterness sets in". Right or not?

3.Patience
Itís something that is often in short supply in an long distance relationship. You get impatient for the next meeting, phone call, letter: to know what the future is etc., etc.I will get impatient too at times but its normal. All i have to do at times like this is do a commitment check. Im always ask myself how important this relationship and this person is to me.

4.Commitment
In these kind of relationships, we need to be much more committed than in any other kind of relationship. And for me the committment covers many areas. For it to last, its important to:

~ Be faithful

~ Be honest. Thatís the thumb rule in all relationships actually... if you canít be faithful then be honest.

~ Be dedicated.

Thats all about my life so far.

Anyone have any idea how to prove this kind of relationship or im just done a good job so far??

Thanking you guys in advance.

Ciao!

Devil

NSAAddict 43F

7/9/2006 9:58 pm

I think you've got the most important parts down. Trust being the biggest one. Have you tried talking over webcam? Sometimes seeing the person helps feel closer to them. I wish you luck

NSA
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Devil_MayCry5 37M
48 posts
7/9/2006 11:14 pm

NSA > tks for ur advice.. never try talking over webcam yet..but so far only talk


wet_pussy4ever 44F
3059 posts
7/10/2006 12:27 am

true dear.. those were d most important fact.. i believe so.. i've been true tat too bt looks like it didn't work out for me anywer i think i prefer a relationship wit sum1 who's near me i think d most important thing is tis kinda relationship is to trust & being honest wit each other.. gud luvk bro hope ur relationship works

Wet_p


Devil_MayCry5 37M
48 posts
7/10/2006 2:10 am

tks wet_p ur such a sweet


Devil_MayCry5 37M
48 posts
7/10/2006 2:12 am

tks NSA


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