Experience v.s sex drive/passion/talent/youth  

Deftonics69 34M
16 posts
5/15/2006 12:30 am

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Experience v.s sex drive/passion/talent/youth


It's quite funny actually. I get responses like: "You're too young", "i'm looking for someone that can last", "looking for someone with experience".

Oh, how we as humans love to assume, and judge. I get looked over because of my age. I'll tell you this right now, there are very few people on this site that are at my level sexually. I will put this in stone and it can be backed up with ease. This is not your "average" young guy physically, or mentally. I'll agree that most guys my age probably don't know how to fuck properly. This man knows where to put it though, and how to use it.

Since when does experience come with age? Experience can come with a lot of sex,yes, but NOT AGE! It makes no sense to think that experience magically comes with age. The two don't go hand in hand. Passion, desire and SKILL over-ride any sort of "experience" that comes with age. It's like comparing a viatnam war vet to a soldier today. Sure the vietnam war vet has more "experience", but who would you go with TODAY, right now. All that experience doesn't mean a thing.

Hmm, let's see a muscular 22 year old with the sex drive, talent and passion of an absolute monster...v.s 44 year old "jim" who gets laid once in a while and oops, ladies..don't forget to provide him with the big V..as in Viagra!

The women on this site are laughable sometimes. "I want so and so with this size and he must be able to last all night". Whoa there, let's see if YOU can last an hour with me first! Let's see if YOU handle MULTIPLE erections from me in an hour! Yes, let's see that!

I should be challenging you! Where's your sex game at? What level? Probably weak as hell! Where's your physically fitness level at? Are you gonna be huffing and puffing to catch your breath after I make you cum TWICE in a row? Answer that ladies, answer that. Young ladies on this site that think an older man will give them some sort of "sexual" wisdom are kidding themselves blindly. Let me ask you this, what are you REALLY looking for? Are you looking for a history lesson from 44 year old jim there, or are you truly looking for mind blowing sex?

The bottom line is, most people on this site aren't even sexually in tune! They shouldn't be asking for or demanding anything.

Deftonics69 34M

5/15/2006 1:09 pm

No comments/replies? dang...the truth hurts doesn't it.


moonlightphoenix 46F
6508 posts
5/15/2006 4:05 pm

Ok, granted, yes, this is a sex hook up site. So, presumably, most people on here are looking for sex. But that's not the reality. The reality is that most people over the age of 30 on this site are looking for a sexual partner second, and a romantic partner first.

Sexual gymnastics becomes less appealing as one gets older and gets more sexually experienced. It becomes less about how hard, how long, how fast, how deep, and becomes more about the intensity, the connection, the sharing of the experience and the chemistry & emotion involved. Especially for women...they can hook up with any dick at their local watering hole. They don't need to fuck around with AdultFriendFinder (pun intended) to get laid. So why are they here, then?? Because they're tired of the games and hiding who they truly are. AdultFriendFinder is a short cut to finding someone who's into the same things you are, without having to put in the time & effort of dating. You can be as upfront here as you want to be...lay it all out there and see if there's anyone biting. When they do, chances are that if you click through email and chat, then when you do finally meet, the rest will fall into place.

You're writing from the perspective of a 22 yr old single guy. It's valid. But until you've been around the block a few times, it's a limited perspective, and I say that with all respect. We all have to start somewhere. There's no shame in Viagra....the men take it out of self defense, and there's no difference between a naturally stiffened dick and an artificially hardened one. Both work just fine.

As for women keeping up with YOU....yes...the truth hurts...lol. and thr truth is, most of us probably couldn't keep up with a 22 yr old, but then, few of us want to. It's not a race. It's quality, not quantity, and no matter how many times you can do it, or in how many different positions, or how good your technique is, it's not about that. It's about what happens between two people who share their nakedness with each other.

Respectfully.


Deftonics69 34M

5/15/2006 8:18 pm

How about the girls my age that think an old man is going to give them some sort of "sexual wisdom", it's ridiculous


Gashlee 34M/F
1 post
5/16/2006 6:31 am

im a 20 year old female. i can have sex for days. guys are crazy for wantin older women. young girls are frisky.


Deftonics69 34M

5/20/2006 12:13 am

    Quoting Gashlee:
    im a 20 year old female. i can have sex for days. guys are crazy for wantin older women. young girls are frisky.
have you even read the thread?


Deftonics69 34M

5/20/2006 12:17 am

    Quoting moonlightphoenix:
    Ok, granted, yes, this is a sex hook up site. So, presumably, most people on here are looking for sex. But that's not the reality. The reality is that most people over the age of 30 on this site are looking for a sexual partner second, and a romantic partner first.

    Sexual gymnastics becomes less appealing as one gets older and gets more sexually experienced. It becomes less about how hard, how long, how fast, how deep, and becomes more about the intensity, the connection, the sharing of the experience and the chemistry & emotion involved. Especially for women...they can hook up with any dick at their local watering hole. They don't need to fuck around with AdultFriendFinder (pun intended) to get laid. So why are they here, then?? Because they're tired of the games and hiding who they truly are. AdultFriendFinder is a short cut to finding someone who's into the same things you are, without having to put in the time & effort of dating. You can be as upfront here as you want to be...lay it all out there and see if there's anyone biting. When they do, chances are that if you click through email and chat, then when you do finally meet, the rest will fall into place.

    You're writing from the perspective of a 22 yr old single guy. It's valid. But until you've been around the block a few times, it's a limited perspective, and I say that with all respect. We all have to start somewhere. There's no shame in Viagra....the men take it out of self defense, and there's no difference between a naturally stiffened dick and an artificially hardened one. Both work just fine.

    As for women keeping up with YOU....yes...the truth hurts...lol. and thr truth is, most of us probably couldn't keep up with a 22 yr old, but then, few of us want to. It's not a race. It's quality, not quantity, and no matter how many times you can do it, or in how many different positions, or how good your technique is, it's not about that. It's about what happens between two people who share their nakedness with each other.

    Respectfully.
um..what did i just say? Experience doesn't come with age! You've just ignored my MAIN point. Who says that at age 22 I haven't been "around the block".

Hell, i've been "around the block" more times than 90 percent of this site!


Deftonics69 34M

5/22/2006 7:38 pm

Come on mofo's

DISPUTE my points, if you can.


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