another question for you  

ThickSlumsBorer 62F
141 posts
5/3/2006 6:07 pm

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12/19/2006 3:37 pm

another question for you

You're about to meet someone for the very first've chatted and all seems meet and you instantly know you are not attracted to the person, you :

a.) politely tell the person
b.) get thru the meet and never have any contact
with that person again
c.) once the meet is done, go home and write an
d.) give it another try

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
5/3/2006 8:33 pm

I am not sure how to answer this as I've not really experienced it. But, if you are ONLY meeting for the purpose of having sex...then I think you'd have to politely tell the person. If you have become friends online...and chatting....then I think that you should be able to meet without the stigma of sex......and then if you had that would be a bonus!

rm_Shortdogg65 52M
672 posts
5/3/2006 9:00 pm

I'm an A or C person myself. Unfortunately, i've gotten the B treatment on several occasions. Shortdogg

03218mike 54M

5/4/2006 4:55 pm

If I have been talking for along time on line an have become friends I would have to go with D.
Now if our talks have been nothing more than sexual then I would have to go with A. But sometimes its easier to take the easy way out and do it in a letter.
Not sure if that helps?

funaddict65 54M

5/5/2006 12:04 pm

You know what he look like? Maybe he had a bad day, he might have been very nervous. Give him another shot...........


5/11/2006 4:33 am

None of the above made a date to meet..& you find the "electricy" isn't there..@ this point you make the best out of the situation...when life hands you a "LEMON"..make "lemonade"...BUT, always be courtious.. while squeezing the lemon..( if you catch my drift)

ThickSlumsBorer 62F

5/12/2006 11:05 am

USMARSH...I like the way you think !!

Rob40_Something 53M

5/18/2006 5:43 pm


If that doesn't start sparks, say it then.

I don't meet people I don't enjoy chatting with, and if I enjoy chatting before meeting, I will after.

03218mike 54M

5/26/2006 1:31 pm

Well then let me introduce myself to you then. Mike from Barnstead here. Been living in Barnstead since 2000, before that lived in Allenstown. Moved to Allenstown back in 86 when I got out of the service which I joined after graduation in 82. I work as a Corrections Officer for the State Prison in Concord and have been employed there since 91. Also been a member of the NH Air national Guards since 90.
Married twice only have children from my first wife who moved to Florida in 9/04. Second wife moved to NY 10/04 at which time my two children moved back in with me (11/04) When my son turned 18 he moved out on his own and lives in Manchester. My 17 year old daughter still lives with me. I have two dogs and two cats that we share our home with too.
Care to learn even more ?


7/29/2006 2:39 pm

had to put my 2 cents in here.. I met someone that didn't look like his picture.. I'm just not connecting with men in their 50's, not their fault i think i'm just to young at heart.. anyway went to meet, saw him and told him i needed to leave to do something that just came up..mean? chicken? maybe so , but I knew instantly I was not attracted and decided I didnt want to wastew my time or his...anyway I did email when I got home to let him know I wasnt attracted and good luck .. JMHO..BTW you are a very pretty woman and I hope you find that man of your dreams!! I do know they are out their~~ just hiding from us!! lol..take care..

roohmon 67M

10/22/2006 6:16 am

D.-- you give them a second try, most people cannot relax on the first date, and the first impressions are critical in the second date.

There is something in sales called the 4x12 and that is the first 12 steps into a room, the first 12 minites of conversation, the first 12 inches from the chin down, and the first 12 minuites of prence in that room with you.

Some people fail that all the time. Besides you can never be without enough good friends in life, for IF I cannot be your lover I want to always be your best friend.

I will take a rose with me to give to the date, and tell her just that, if we cannot be lovers and friends, lest just be friends. Life is too short.


ThickSlumsBorer 62F

12/19/2006 3:37 pm

Roohhhhhhhhhhhhh...One thing is for sure I will always be your friend...and still waiting for time to have chinese !


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