Sleeping together...  

DallasPhallus56 62M
117 posts
8/1/2005 9:33 pm

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Sleeping together...

I haven't slept with a woman in about three years. Note that I mean that in the literal sense, since I have obviously had quite a bit of sex. However, there has been no spending the night, for various reasons. One is that it implies a commitment to spend much of the next day as well, and that's not always something I care to do. Another is that it's more intimate than I usually want to get. I have grown so accustomed to sleeping alone that it's hard to sleep with someone else, especially in her bed.

Elaine wanted me to stay the second time we got into bed, even before we had actual sex, but I declined. I promised that I would some time soon, and I will, probably within the next couple of weeks. So the question is this: Do you prefer to sleep with your lovers, or enjoy the pleasure and go home? Would you sleep with him or her if you could? If you do sleep together, do you wake up in the middle of the night and have wet, sleepy sex? What do you do the morning after?

Or am I wasting my time with this post? Does anybody read this stuff any more?

LeEnchantress 56F

8/1/2005 11:23 pm

We all read this stuff dude??/ why on earth wud you.. for name of god, want to sleep alone???
that's the nice part about having sex together late at night.. then you have someone to cuddle all nite long and have sex thru-out the night or early morning sex.. which is always randy and hot..
I am so horny in the morning.. especially if didn't have an orgasm night before...
Wet sleep sex sounds so nice right now..
I hate sleeping alone... : (
but since this website if so full of phonies & just basically pic collectors that is what i'm doing lately....643

wyvernrose 39F  
3964 posts
8/2/2005 3:20 am

I love having boney in my bed when he is not snoring the snuggle and night time play...

but playmates nope rule is no slumber parties...


rm_mik4887 34F
1 post
8/2/2005 5:29 am

i read this alot. i find it very interesting, keep on posting!

DallasPhallus56 62M

8/2/2005 9:59 pm

LeEnchantress, I'm a fairly solitary man, and I like the quiet time in the mornings. However, morning sex is much hotter, and I prefer it over making love when I'm half asleep.

Wyvernrose, I can understand your reasoning there.

Mik4887, thanks for at least acknowledging that you read it. Any aspect of it you particulary enjoy?

hourglasses 49F

8/4/2005 5:20 am

This may seem like a strange thing for a woman to say, but I prefer to sleep alone. I lived with someone once and always had trouble since I'm a light sleeper. Now that I've been alone for 7 yrs, I find it hard to spend the night with someone. My current lover seems to want to spend the night when he's able (which isn't very often). I don't want to say no because it seems like rejection, but I know if he stays over I won't sleep.

DallasPhallus56 62M

8/6/2005 8:53 am

Hourglasses, sometimes "not sleeping" when someone stays over is a good thing. I know if I had spent the night with Elaine the first time she asked me, we would have had sex some time during the night, or in the morning. When I lived with women I have slept well, but it takes more than one night to get used to it. It can feel really good to drift off after a particularly hot evening of sex, then wake up and do it again.

rm_cele2flowers 43F
75 posts
8/19/2005 10:14 am

For quite a while I was with partners that went home afterwards (or I went home afterwards). I don't particularly like it much at all. If it's late at night, it really sucks the big one to have to get dressed and walk to the car and drive home to go to bed. I'd rather just sleep where I fall. I have had just a couple of lovers that have allowed me to spend the night (or I allowed them to stay). I'll admit that I don't sleep worth a damn that night, and sometimes the next couple of nights I spend with them, but I get use to it. Those first few sleepless nights I've found were worth it though. One thing I've found to overcome that is taking a sleep aid, like Tylenol PM or something without the pain reliever. I realize it doesn't work for everyone, but I also have a real hard time sleeping in any bed besides mine for the first night, be it a hotel bed, a couch, or someone else's bed, whether there is someone in the bed with me or not. The sex in the middle of the night is great, especially if you're both restless. In the morning is great too. Finally, when the morning comes along, there's usually something happening with one of us so we have to part ways that morning and there is no obligation to spend the rest of the day together.

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