A Seasonal Greeting  

DCEbony
2208 posts
3/12/2006 7:45 am

Last Read:
4/20/2006 5:00 pm

A Seasonal Greeting

Last time I posted here it was winter! Spring is rapidly approaching, so I'm considering posting on a seasonal basis.

So much for my leaving the site altogether, huh? LOL

As some of you know, I'm still lurking in Blog Land and posting the occasional comment. If we're going to get technical about it, I'm just taking and not giving. In order to remedy the situation, I figure the least I could do is post a lil somethin' somethin'.

When I went on blog hiatus, my work and home lives were in an uproar and I was in the process of figuring out what was going to happen with Far Away Dude. Ready for an update? If not, skip the next section and have a lovely day.

Work has definitely taken a turn for the better, I'm happy to report. Some connections I've made over the years are starting to pay off. It just goes to show that kindnesses that you show along the way are often paid back when you least expect it. I know I sound all cryptic and weird but in the interest of staying anonymous, I can't really get into more detail.

Things Chez DCE have really improved and everything with the family is falling into place nicely. I'm not in a position where I'm ready to go out and play again, but it's a definite possibility in the future. Once a semi-bad girl, always a semi-bad girl.

Far Away Dude and I are O-V-E-R. All capital letters, y'all. Once a relationship ends, I don't recycle so this a permanent thing.

When the going got tough, Far Away Dude got going in the lamest of ways. There was a difficult stretch where I really needed him and he just pussied out and bailed.

No, things didn't end via a Post-It Note, Sex and the City fans. He did me the courtesy of sending me an email! Wasn't that nice of him? It was a perfectly nice message full of warm, fuzzy feelings and promises to be there for me if I needed him in the future. Heh. Funny.

We had a definite emotional attachment but I'm grateful that I didn't get more involved than I did. Now what would have happened if I'd totally altered my life to be with this guy? Uh huh. Exactly.

At least when I look back on our relationship, I can say that I was a better friend to him than he was to me. I consider the whole adventure a bullet dodged and a lesson learned. "Such is life", says the ladylike side of DCE. I do have another side and it says, "Fuck him".

Anyway, that's all she wrote.

Drop me a line and tell me what's new with you.



LustGoddess2469 51F  
2453 posts
3/12/2006 10:08 am

Did ya find those officers for us yet? LMAO

I'm so glad you're still here. Muah!

Lusty


smileguyqc 54M

3/12/2006 12:25 pm

Hey DCE glad to hear things are smoothing out on the home front... I love it that the tables are turning for you on the job front past kindnesses paying off. Hearing that kind of stuff makes it all seem worth while, helps the rest of us to believe there really is a light and the end of the tunnel (and that its not a train).

nice nipples


rm_qcao1 50F
197 posts
3/12/2006 2:07 pm

As always funny, and interesting.
Glad you are back.
I have three favorite bloggers, you are one of them, and all of them quit blogging.
Please write often, I enjoy reading your blogs
You should seriously consider writing professionally, you are a very good writer.


qyxx 61F
3334 posts
3/12/2006 5:02 pm

I am sorry to hear that things didn't work out. But keep the faith. Your day is coming.

On another note, you were that one that started me coming to Blogland so I am really glad to see you are back.

Q.


TheRealThing655 49F
9558 posts
3/13/2006 12:30 pm

Hi, I've also enjoyed your Blog. Look forward to more. I've had the same thing happen- a year affair with a man from this site, we said the "love" word, and yup, breakup over email. Reminded me of the Sex and the City episode too. I too feel like I did a lot more for him than he did for me. Ah well. Each experience makes us stronger and smarter.


007sexy40plus 52F  
7603 posts
3/13/2006 7:08 pm

Well hey there Mrs DCE. I knew you couldnt stay away. Glad to see you here again, in case you're wondering its me the former straightten2002 I changed my name to protect my not-so-innocence. Come see me!!

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"


Priapeo 48M

3/14/2006 5:24 am

being a taker is more than ok as long as there are willing givers, and you know you have one affectionate one here. What's new with me? Not much, to be true... more or less leading the usual blog life but with a tolerant eye for cobwebs growing at the corners of my screen.
So, if yours will be a seasonal posting, can we have next time a bikini butt-shot?

Never argue with an idiot. He brings you down to his level then beats you with experience


Therealniceguy01 48M
35 posts
3/14/2006 7:38 am

Hi DCE, I'm new.


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/14/2006 10:37 am

    Quoting LustGoddess2469:
    Did ya find those officers for us yet? LMAO

    I'm so glad you're still here. Muah!

    Lusty
Lusty -

Don't you worry, my friend. Your buddy has plans. Evil plans.

Muah to you, too!

DCE


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/14/2006 10:42 am

    Quoting smileguyqc:
    Hey DCE glad to hear things are smoothing out on the home front... I love it that the tables are turning for you on the job front past kindnesses paying off. Hearing that kind of stuff makes it all seem worth while, helps the rest of us to believe there really is a light and the end of the tunnel (and that its not a train).

    nice nipples
Smileguy -

You just reminded me of a song by the fine band Cracker.

There's a line in their track "I See The Light" that says, "I see the light at the end of the end of the tunnel now/Someone please tell me it's not a train".

I'm not hearing any warning whistles, so I think I'm okay. LOL

As for the nipple comment, next time you need an application of Vaseline for yours, I'm yer girl. I'll even warm my hands up and everything. Unless, of course, you like cold hands...


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/14/2006 10:44 am

    Quoting rm_qcao1:
    As always funny, and interesting.
    Glad you are back.
    I have three favorite bloggers, you are one of them, and all of them quit blogging.
    Please write often, I enjoy reading your blogs
    You should seriously consider writing professionally, you are a very good writer.
gcao =

Thanks for your kind words. They're very much appreciated.

I still get some pretty funny emails, so there is always the possibility that I'll get the chance to blog about them again.

I did some freelance writing for a very short time, but then I realized that I like things like being able to eat and pay rent. LOL


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/14/2006 10:48 am

    Quoting rm_valleyrat4:
    Hey DC, want me to send you a really rude e-mail complete with a dic pic that's not mine just for old times sake?

    Glad all is well that ends well......
Valleyrat -

Despite my lack of activity on this website, I still get plenty of, um, "interesting" emails.

Try as you might, I'm afraid you can't begin to reach the level of grossness and tackiness displayed by some of the guys on this website. Hell, some of the women, too.


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/14/2006 10:51 am

    Quoting qyxx:
    I am sorry to hear that things didn't work out. But keep the faith. Your day is coming.

    On another note, you were that one that started me coming to Blogland so I am really glad to see you are back.
gyxx -

Well, I can't really complain about the end of my relationship too much. Most women don't have a husband and a boyfriend at the same time, so what can I say? LOL

Thanks for the welcome back.

I have been snooping on your blog and I've enjoyed what I've read. Consider me one of your faithful readers.


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/14/2006 10:54 am

    Quoting TheRealThing655:
    Hi, I've also enjoyed your Blog. Look forward to more. I've had the same thing happen- a year affair with a man from this site, we said the "love" word, and yup, breakup over email. Reminded me of the Sex and the City episode too. I too feel like I did a lot more for him than he did for me. Ah well. Each experience makes us stronger and smarter.
RealThing -

Thanks for visiting my blog!

Just as you said, experience makes us stronger and smarter. It also make plotting revenge just that much easier. LOL


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/14/2006 10:55 am

    Quoting 007sexy40plus:
    Well hey there Mrs DCE. I knew you couldnt stay away. Glad to see you here again, in case you're wondering its me the former straightten2002 I changed my name to protect my not-so-innocence. Come see me!!
007sexy -

Oooh! Nice undies, girl!

I'm not sure how often I'll be here, but I figured I was long overdue in posting on the site.

Now that I know where you are, I'll be visiting your blog.


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/14/2006 10:58 am

    Quoting Priapeo:
    being a taker is more than ok as long as there are willing givers, and you know you have one affectionate one here. What's new with me? Not much, to be true... more or less leading the usual blog life but with a tolerant eye for cobwebs growing at the corners of my screen.
    So, if yours will be a seasonal posting, can we have next time a bikini butt-shot?
Priapeo -

I've been busy padding my ass with bread and pasta all winter!

You really, really do not want (or need) to see a shot of my butt, much less my butt in a bikini bottom. LOL


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/14/2006 10:59 am

Hi and welcome, Realniceguy.


rm_talldarkavg1 107M
10172 posts
3/15/2006 1:31 pm

Thank goodness you're back. I'm still 6 bucks short on the randsome money. Better things are just down the road for you. No doubt.

[blog talldarkavg1]


Therealniceguy01 48M
35 posts
3/15/2006 5:05 pm

    Quoting DCEbony:
    Hi and welcome, Realniceguy.
Be gentle


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/18/2006 1:14 pm

    Quoting rm_talldarkavg1:
    Thank goodness you're back. I'm still 6 bucks short on the randsome money. Better things are just down the road for you. No doubt.
TDA1 -

*sob*

Be still my teeny, tiny, evil little heart!

Glad to see you back on the electronic block. Now that you're here again, I can settle in for some good readin'!

Welcome back!

Smooches,
DCE


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/18/2006 1:17 pm

Realniceguy -

I am always gentle. Unless someone requests that I be otherwise. LOL


Therealniceguy01 48M
35 posts
3/19/2006 5:26 am

Shall I make a request?


smileguyqc 54M

3/20/2006 10:54 am

    Quoting DCEbony:
    Smileguy -

    You just reminded me of a song by the fine band Cracker.

    There's a line in their track "I See The Light" that says, "I see the light at the end of the end of the tunnel now/Someone please tell me it's not a train".

    I'm not hearing any warning whistles, so I think I'm okay. LOL

    As for the nipple comment, next time you need an application of Vaseline for yours, I'm yer girl. I'll even warm my hands up and everything. Unless, of course, you like cold hands...
LOL DCE... gotta watch what you say, I'll be asking for it everyday


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/20/2006 5:21 pm

Realniceguy -

Requests would be wasted on me. I'm inactive and bitter. LOL


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/20/2006 5:24 pm

    Quoting smileguyqc:
    LOL DCE... gotta watch what you say, I'll be asking for it everyday
Smileguy -

You can ask, but you might not necessarily get it everyday.

Ah, who am I fooling?

Go get the jar. LOL


Therealniceguy01 48M
35 posts
3/20/2006 7:53 pm

    Quoting DCEbony:
    Realniceguy -

    Requests would be wasted on me. I'm inactive and bitter. LOL
For some reason I doubt that somone with such a bright smile would be bitter in the slightest.

I also like gentle


digdug41 50M

3/21/2006 4:44 am

DCE hey! I didnt even realize you posted until I clicked on your handle so nice to see you'll be coming in an out for the moment glad things are progressing in a positive fashion for you and I hope to cyaroun al il more opften you take care and thanks for the word of encouragement

roaming the cyber streets of blogland


lucadoe 55F

3/21/2006 8:55 am

Glad to see you back....i enjoyed reading your blog


smileguyqc 54M

3/21/2006 10:38 am

    Quoting DCEbony:
    Smileguy -

    You can ask, but you might not necessarily get it everyday.

    Ah, who am I fooling?

    Go get the jar. LOL
LOL... yes I'm familiar with this concept. Hey have you ever read the kids book "If You Give a Moose a Muffin"... well you know if I can get you to do it once a day, I'm gonna ask for twice, If I can get you to rub Vasaline on my nipples before I run, well I'm gonna want ya to rub me all over after I run... mmmm and if ya rub me all over, I'm just gonna want ta do wonderful things to you... DCE your sweet and this is fun. We gotta think of something more tasty to rub on our nipples though... Vasaline, blah!!!!


GenuaFoursHangs 54M
96 posts
3/23/2006 8:42 am

Hey DCE!

Hi neighbor, great to see you again. I have seen you lurking about and have wondered whether you might come out?

I really appreciate your update. Sounds like you have gotten a lot of issues taken care of and put away.

I would still enjoy meeting you in Frederick for a cup of coffee or Tea at Starbucks sometime. My treat.

I just returned from some travel, and it was a pleasant surprise to see your new entry. I missed your commentary.

Cheers,

Dutch


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/23/2006 8:50 am

    Quoting Therealniceguy01:
    For some reason I doubt that somone with such a bright smile would be bitter in the slightest.

    I also like gentle
Realniceguy -

The smile covers up the bitterness very nicely, doesn't it? LOL


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/23/2006 8:52 am

    Quoting digdug41:
    DCE hey! I didnt even realize you posted until I clicked on your handle so nice to see you'll be coming in an out for the moment glad things are progressing in a positive fashion for you and I hope to cyaroun al il more opften you take care and thanks for the word of encouragement
Double D -

No need to thank me.

Once I make friends with someone, they're pretty much stuck.

I'll be checking in on you from time to time!


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/23/2006 8:54 am

    Quoting lucadoe:
    Glad to see you back....i enjoyed reading your blog
Thank you, Lucadoe!

I'm not sure whether I'll have as much to blog about now that I'm not actively looking but I still get some very interesting emails.

I may have to go through them and share in the near future.


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/23/2006 8:56 am

    Quoting smileguyqc:
    LOL... yes I'm familiar with this concept. Hey have you ever read the kids book "If You Give a Moose a Muffin"... well you know if I can get you to do it once a day, I'm gonna ask for twice, If I can get you to rub Vasaline on my nipples before I run, well I'm gonna want ya to rub me all over after I run... mmmm and if ya rub me all over, I'm just gonna want ta do wonderful things to you... DCE your sweet and this is fun. We gotta think of something more tasty to rub on our nipples though... Vasaline, blah!!!!
Smileguy -

But Vaseline is so much better for one's nipples than something like Cool Whip!

Anyway, select your rub of choice and I will try my best to adapt.


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/23/2006 8:59 am

    Quoting rm_sexyfitwoman:
    Good plan to not recycle relationships... Kind of drag to deal with though.
Sexyfitwoman -

I made the mistake of recycling once with disasterous results.

I may not always think things through before I do them, but I eventually learn a lesson. LOL


Therealniceguy01 48M
35 posts
3/23/2006 9:16 pm

    Quoting DCEbony:
    Realniceguy -

    The smile covers up the bitterness very nicely, doesn't it? LOL
Can't tell until I meet you in person.


TopFisher 64M

3/23/2006 11:49 pm

You ever pull another disappearing trick like this and you girl are in for one halla flogging. Whips/ chains, nothing is out of bounds! [/COLOR]

Most excellent to see you back! Big HUG


smileguyqc 54M

3/24/2006 9:43 am

Hey DCE your tagged

* TAG YOU ARE IT! *

The first player of this game starts with and shares "6 weird/things/habits/oddities about yourself" and people who get tagged need to write a blog sharing THEIR 6 weird habits things, oddities.

At the end you need to choose the 6 people to be tagged and list their names. Don't forget to leave a comment that says "you are tagged" in their latest blog post and tell them to read yours.


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/25/2006 8:28 am

    Quoting GenuaFoursHangs:
    Hey DCE!

    Hi neighbor, great to see you again. I have seen you lurking about and have wondered whether you might come out?

    I really appreciate your update. Sounds like you have gotten a lot of issues taken care of and put away.

    I would still enjoy meeting you in Frederick for a cup of coffee or Tea at Starbucks sometime. My treat.

    I just returned from some travel, and it was a pleasant surprise to see your new entry. I missed your commentary.

    Cheers,

    Dutch
Hi Dutch -

Welcome back from parts unknown.

When you get the chance, send me an email on this site, 'kay?


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/25/2006 8:31 am

    Quoting rm_sexyfitwoman:
    I recycled one, but it wasn't really recycling, I just wanted a fuck buddy and he wasn't "relationship" material, but was good for a fuck buddy, a lot of fun actually
Sexyfitwoman -

More power to you, my sistah. At least one of us had some fun with recycling.

At the back of my mind there is the temptation to recycle Far Away Dude at some point in the distant future. Next time the urge hits, I plan to suffocate it so it doesn't breed.

Your girl is not opening that can of worms again. As Whitney Houston famously says, "Hell to the no!" LOL


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/25/2006 8:33 am

Realniceguy -

I am on hiatus, remember?

I'm not going to be meeting anyone for the for a long, long, LONG time.


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/25/2006 8:35 am

    Quoting TopFisher:
    You ever pull another disappearing trick like this and you girl are in for one halla flogging. Whips/ chains, nothing is out of bounds!

    Most excellent to see you back! Big HUG
TopFisher -

You're trying to use some reverse psychology, you sneaky boy.

If you want me to flog you, just say so! I'll be gentle so that I don't leave any lasting marks.

I'll take that hug, thank you very much. Might I offer one in return?


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/25/2006 8:38 am

    Quoting smileguyqc:
    Hey DCE your tagged

    * TAG YOU ARE IT! *

    The first player of this game starts with and shares "6 weird/things/habits/oddities about yourself" and people who get tagged need to write a blog sharing THEIR 6 weird habits things, oddities.

    At the end you need to choose the 6 people to be tagged and list their names. Don't forget to leave a comment that says "you are tagged" in their latest blog post and tell them to read yours.
Smileguy -

Awww, mannn...

Now I'm actually going to have to work at a blog posting and go forth and share the misery?

Dammit!

Can't I just post three super-weird things and call it a day? LOL


smileguyqc 54M

3/25/2006 2:11 pm

    Quoting DCEbony:
    Smileguy -

    Awww, mannn...

    Now I'm actually going to have to work at a blog posting and go forth and share the misery?

    Dammit!

    Can't I just post three super-weird things and call it a day? LOL
LOL... I'm soooooo sorry... he he, NOT!! and 3 superweirds is just fine with me.... LOL sadly I didn't find it all that hard to think of 6


rm_jayR63 60F
1884 posts
3/26/2006 11:25 am

Good to see you're still around, we've missed you!
I'm still looking for you whenever I go for expensive coffee.


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/28/2006 3:27 pm

    Quoting rm_sexyfitwoman:
    When I think about it more, I've used more then one ex as a fuck buddy, at least once in a while, but never any intention to be a couple.
Sexyfitwoman -

You're a better woman than I.

With the exception of one, I never want to see any of my exes again. The only reason I want to see that one guy is so that I can aim my car and him and rev the engine.

I don't want to injure him, but I'd be into giving him a really good scare. Heh heh heh.


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/28/2006 3:29 pm

    Quoting smileguyqc:
    LOL... I'm soooooo sorry... he he, NOT!! and 3 superweirds is just fine with me.... LOL sadly I didn't find it all that hard to think of 6
Smileguy -

I done my homework, so you can take a peek at my next post.

Damn you Canadian men and your charm! ((shakes fist))


DCEbony
1586 posts
3/28/2006 3:31 pm

    Quoting rm_jayR63:
    Good to see you're still around, we've missed you!
    I'm still looking for you whenever I go for expensive coffee.
jayR, dahling -

Glad to see you around, too!

I've had to foresake the evil bean for the most part, but I still slip from time to time.

Kind of like me being back on this website. LOL


redlipsprincess
(Princess Lips)
53F

4/20/2006 12:26 am

Once a semi-bad girl, always a semi-bad girl.

AMEN

*hugs*

TTFN


DCEbony
1586 posts
4/20/2006 5:00 pm

    Quoting redlipsprincess:
    Once a semi-bad girl, always a semi-bad girl.

    AMEN

    *hugs*
Thanks for visiting (and for the amen), Redlips.


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