CuriousKitty675 42F
285 posts
7/29/2005 4:11 pm

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Okay so I joined this group on AdultFriendFinder to see what exactly a SugarDaddy relationship was all about. asked questions and never really got answers. So I am left being curious. A lethal condition for us felines I know.

So what is it, I'm wondering? I know the basics. A man who provides funds or goods in exhange for a companion. Sounds a lot like prostitution that way. But aside from the obvious what do the two people get out of the relationship? What emotional satisfation is in it? What is the draw? Is it the lure of money? Sex? Is it a dom/sub thing? A control issue? Arg!

I just wanna know and understand it. Is it like in the movies or is it different? Who knows, maybe some day one of them on there will give me a response.

rm_Coffee_Stud 32M
19 posts
7/30/2005 1:42 pm

I think it's properly a mix of all of the above...
I've had experience with SugarMommas and they do have a tendency to be over protective.

But you know, these people are not attractive for their money or power, but they constantly put it in there as some sort of control mechanism.

and if you ever offer to pay a dining bill or not charge for anything, boy will they give you hell, they either get paranoid that your sleeping with someone else, or your trying to undermined them.

I guess they just get the 2 things mixed up, personally I'm just in it for the fun and companionship, money always screws things up in relationships.

(Juan S)
2642 posts
8/2/2005 10:16 am

Sugardaddies are usually desired by someone that wants stability. It sometimes is undermined by what we call gold diggers, but the two are very, very different. Gold diggers are just out for what they can get. A woman actually looking for a sugardaddie wants the finer things that his money and stability can provide and is willing to exchange the things in his life that is missing. Usually companionship and sex. Sometimes mostly for the companionship. Having a younger, attractive woman is sometimes like an ego boost, sometimes it is what keeps them young. Hope that helps.

goddessofbitches 42M/34F

8/2/2005 9:04 pm

Funny...I thought a sugardaddy was a king of candy...
Boy was I

Always The Bitch

CuriousKitty675 42F
365 posts
8/6/2005 9:29 pm

Coffee_stud you are so right! Money ALWAYS screws up a relationship.

CuriousKitty675 42F
365 posts
8/6/2005 9:33 pm

Siz! Babe! Good to see you over here. I guess I can understand that from an intellectual point of view but I don't know...there's just something I can't wrap my mind around to make it all make sense to me. See, I crave stability and who wouldn't want a gallant knight to rescue you from your problems but at the same time I have a problem accepting things like that from other people. If someone gives me an expensive gift I feel like they are trying to buy me off or purchase me with it. A bribe. Guess I'm too damn independant for my own good huh? LOL

CuriousKitty675 42F
365 posts
8/6/2005 9:33 pm

LOL! Ya learn something new everyday Mands. Glad to see you over here honey.

CuriousKitty675 42F
365 posts
8/8/2005 3:48 pm

Eek! Sakrilej! You're not supposed to mention a woman's age! LOL! I don't know why it took so long to update but yeah, one more year. Although it was back in May. But hey, I'll take a belated happy b-day from a guy with a sexy accent any day of the year darlin.

ByteChaser2 54M

8/9/2005 9:19 am

Well... Having been a sugardaddy of sorts. It's being the supportive, "un-comitted" benifactor for another (normally a woman).

I'm way too broke to be one any more but dayum was it an ego boost...

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