Affraid of being a loser?  

CuriousBi45 58M
18 posts
4/14/2005 5:11 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Affraid of being a loser?


Am I a loser because I need AdultFriendFinder to find a sex partner? For a while, I used to think so . After all, if I cannot be successful at finding people on my own, face to face, it is probably because I do not have what I need to impress people.

However, since I started browsing throught the AdultFriendFinder, I realized that I am not the only one in my condition. A lot of people have the same problem; we are not good salesman.

Most of people seem to have the right package, the right attitude, and the right set of willingness to go beyond their imaginery boundaries. We just don't have that facility to promote it, to deliver the right message, or to show off we have feelings and needs.

Are we losers because we are using a tool to get out of our shell? Not at all! On the contrary, we are winners that are trying to break some walls of "conformance", "society standards", and other "stay in your place" modos.

AdultFriendFinder allows us to show the world that we exist, that we are not alone, and a lot a good things could happen if we share our intimate desires.

There are a lot of people that express themselves very freely on the site, showing themselves as they really are, and telling the world what they want. It make me happy to be part of that community, and I don't look at people the same way anymore. Who ever we are, we have our little secrets and fantasms.

Now we have a way to express them. Go to my profile, and you will see me as I really am, what are my fantasms, and you will see me naked, just like I intended to show myself for years This is me, and I am proud of it.

Lapkin4u 43F

4/14/2005 9:11 am

I don't believe you are a loser because you are here. Of course we can find people in our area...but in my case I've gone through the usual suspects at the bars in my area...nothing new to excite me there. Besides its easier to put exactly what you are looking for in your profile and have those who are interested contact you ...than it is to walk up to someone you dont know and say I want to have anal sex or a threesome or what have you. Being a women you can only pick up so many people at the bar before you are branded a slut anyway. So we turn to AdultFriendFinder for fufilling our fantasies......so no I dont feel like a loser I feel like a woman who knows what she wants and is moving forward to find that.


playfulwithyou33 57F
961 posts
4/18/2005 3:57 pm

It's niche marketing. The internet is also a great venue for finding articulate, funny, creative and sexual people...okay, so you could go to a mensa meeting to find bright--but are you sexually attracted to them, here you can peruse MANY profiles quickly and find ones tailor made to your tastes, witness the writing styles of people's profiles/posts/blogs, as well as view their pictures. And if you're a night owl--just look at the sheer number of people you can have access to...Hey, it's a playground!


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