Prefaced with a big huge sigh....  

CruelKitty 46F
272 posts
6/30/2006 9:11 pm
Prefaced with a big huge sigh....


What's the difference between average sex and great sex? I've decided for myself that it's all in the way the man makes me feel. It's not the size of his dick and it's not how he uses it. It's more about generosity and the fact that he makes me feel genuinely wanted. I'll always have a better memory of the guys who read my face while we're having sex, who ask me what I'm thinking, or ask me what's wrong. And I really love it when we're sleeping and I stir a little and he asks if I'm ok, or if he just kinda wraps his arms around me tighter. Maybe I'm just a little more needy than I'd like to admit. One thing is for sure, they will never that.

So, what makes for bad sex? When a guy proves that he's only in it for himself. When he misleads you to try to get you in bed, and then leaves you feeling totally used and disappointed. I met a guy the other night who didn't have a clue. He was younger though. Much younger, so hopefully he's learned something from our meeting. His first mistake was overstating how much he likes to eat pussy. Well, when I got there he acted like he didn't even want to touch it! In fact, he wanted to use a metal object on me. That really turned me off. For one thing, it would have been cold. For another thing, it's been touched by other people. That's the kind of thing that causes PID...and I have a sensitive pussy..that's the last thing I want. I quickly tired of this guy's immaturity and made an early departure. The biggest thing I've learned when it comes to men is to get mine first. And if he's not willing to give it to me, he's not going to be worth it.

So on another note, I'm headed for the lake tomorrow afternoon. I won't be back until Tuesday night. So I hope everyone has a safe and happy 4th of July!

squezemetight 35M
103 posts
7/1/2006 11:44 am

hope you have fun at the lake.


EbonyHnk 38M

8/17/2006 1:13 am

... some experience! Vicer versa, i've dated women who were all mouthy how gr8t they were in the sack ~~~ well, lets just say " Action never spoke any louder" !

~ We should just be ReAl ! ~

Thanks for putting it out there !


rm_george22248 69M
5 posts
11/21/2006 8:07 am

I agree with you, only vice versa. Caring goes both ways. The other thing I agree with you is that women shuld get off first. I have no idea what the percentage but very few women can actually cum through intercourse ie we men need to perform oral on them before we put it in for real. We can put it in as foreplay but we should go down on you before we put it in with the intention of coming ourselves.

I would invite you over for Thanksgiving but my wife would not understand


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