Would you do this??  

CravinCurves 46F
257 posts
9/5/2006 10:27 am

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Would you do this??

Ok here is the deal...I told my husband the other day that I would be ok with him playing solo with another woman...he thinks I am crazy because he is willing to let me play solo with other girls but not other guys...so what do you think??....am I crazy for being ok with my husband to play solo with other women?

MarcoPolo197676 41M
541 posts
9/5/2006 11:04 am

No, its really a coomunication and trust thing.

attentive2u58 59M
251 posts
9/5/2006 11:08 am

hehehe. Well I guess you could of told him that you didn't mind him playing solo with other GUYS.... Here is my take on relationships that are open. If you have to chain the dog to your porch to keep it from running off, it truly isn't your dog. ...He may fear that if you're that trusting you may expect him to be so at some future point. If he knows that he will not be, respect that he knows his limitations. j

rm_tungonu2 50M

9/5/2006 11:43 am

He loves you. He embraces your need and desire for women......but you meet his desires and he does not need go looking for it anywhere else.

blackdirkdiggler 44M
7 posts
9/8/2006 8:58 pm

True!! Its all about trust and your knowing that he is YOURS and he is coming back home to you that makes it less of a threat to you! That is confidence in "letting your dog loose" to roam the streets and be back by dinnertime!

CravinCurves 46F

9/24/2006 1:19 am

I loved your answer 3Spell6Bound9...I have re-evaluated the situation...and I know that I could definitely trust my husband to play solo with other women (not in my bed thought lol)...but I think that for now it would be best if he just does it with me there...

Our situation is pretty much just like it is with you and your husband...I worship my man...and I love watching him pleasuring other women...he is in no way ok with me playing with other men and I am totally ok with that...I would rather play with girls...I know that I would be ok with him playing solo with women but when I brought up the subject it caused some turbulence with us and I took the offer off the table cause nothing is worth losing my husband over...

Let's just say...take everything that you just wrote about you and your husband...and you have me and my husband...we should talk

Thanks for you input

CravinCurves 46F

9/25/2006 6:35 am

I totally agree with your husband 3Spell6bound9...and that is why I am totally ok with him playing alone, cause I believe in my heart that he can separate the two...I think that he gets the idea sometimes that I am willing to let him play solo because there maybe a chance in the future that he will let me play with men...and you know...I have no urge to do that...all I really want is a female playmate...my husband satisfies me like no man ever has...and I would never sacrifice that for anything...I think it would be so hot to have him come home and tell me about his experience while we have sex...I have actually fantasied about on occasion, and man does it get me hot and extremely turned on ...Thanks for you husbands input.

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