Those who have been here a while  

Couple_N_Destin 37M/35F
10 posts
10/7/2005 9:24 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Those who have been here a while

Ok, I have a serious question. I was on the chat room, not really doing a lot of chatting. It seems that most of the rooms are filled with horny guys more interested in shouting out their size location and sexual needs, BUT anyhow. Some one was arranging a meating with someone who was near them. Another person started freaking out sending warnings flags up and everything. Is this a bad thing? What's wrong with finding someone near you for a bowling match who has common intrests? And yes, if you want to meet for sex too, but what is so bad? Is it Bad???

MissAnnThrope 57F
11488 posts
10/7/2005 11:04 pm

No, it's not bad to meet people from the rooms. Most of us have done it. However, with the regulars in particular, there's something called cockblocking. That's where one or a gang of people will do anything to prevent these people meeting, or even taking conversation out of the room. It happens all the time.

The people who do this have one of two reasons to do it: 1. They're jealous. They wanted one of the people who are planning meeting up. Therefore, they're going to do everything in their power to keep the meeting from happening. 2. They've met one of the people in question and it didn't turn out well for them. Therefore, because they didn't get along with the person, no one else should.

It's asinine and juvenile, but that's the way of the rooms. It's like a group of HS clicks in most of them. If a person has a genuine warning, then state it. Don't just insinuate something is wrong with a person. Also, be ready to back it up. The chat rooms are full of drama and untrue gossip. I've been getting really sick of what goes on in one of my rooms for a while now. I literally have to be dragged into that room to chat anymore.

Zim1982 35F

10/17/2005 7:04 pm

You know.. I don't think there's anything wrong with it, I prefer one on one chat now a days but I used to go into chat rooms alot. I agree with first commenter that said people are usually jealous or have already met one of the two making plans..

Very very rarely I have seen the cockblocking done for a good reason.. IE the person turned out to be a real creep, into children/ animals just.. Very very rarely this cockblocking is a good thing.
Don't know how else to say it.

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