Bi Southern Men and MMF Encounters  

CoupleForever56 62M/62F
23 posts
2/14/2005 2:14 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Bi Southern Men and MMF Encounters

Hi. So let's try and and understand bi men and their encounters in the South. Far different than most places. Lots of bi male listings looking for couples but lots of them disappear. Interesting????? Unusual?????

Cathy_Dave 55M/55F

2/14/2005 4:05 pm

We also find it interesting. Up here in canada it is the same way, lots of guys saying they are bi looking for couples but then, guess what, they are gone, what gives with these guys.

rm_RogueDragon 61M
213 posts
2/14/2005 8:25 pm

I have found that many women enjoy the same type fantasy that men have, the urge to see two members of the opposite sex having sex and then joining in. Why should men assume that women have the fantasy to be with another woman to please their guy?? But while most men find the fantasy to watching two women go at it, also find the thought of being with another guy not to their liking.

A second observation is that couples that communicates that they are both bi tend to be ignored. But a guy that communicates he is bi, is normally put down, called names, and generally shunned. I have observed all of this in adult oriented, swinger themed chat rooms on-line.

I also suspect there are many men that would engage in bi-sex in the context of a MMF 3some, but would never give a passing thought to male-male only bi-sex.

I suspect the disappearing listings for bi-males comes from the fact that they are most likely ignored and so having the listing is worthless and so it goes away, replaced by one that makes them more attractive to the general population.

Just my stray, boring thoughts

manupforall 60M

2/14/2005 11:28 pm

As a bi male who is looking for couples (and others) I can make a few comments.

Some of these guys are not really bi but they hook up with a couple and then get freaked out and run screaming into the night.

Some think that this site should produce instant results and get discouraged and quit.

Others are caught by a partner who did not know and is not happy.

Is a funny thing being bi in our society. In some ways it is great because you can play with lots of people. The problems come in when you are not accepted by straights and also by many gays.

So what to do?
Just live and try to be true to reality and have fun day by day.
Like minded people usually find each other eventually if they keep looking and trying.

A connection between a nice Bi male and a compatable Bi couple is a wonderful thing and is worth LOTS of searching and trying.

CoupleForever56 62M/62F
5 posts
2/15/2005 7:55 am

I don't know. Cathy, if you are anything like me, seeing my lover with another man just sends me over the edge. What man who has a lot of sensuality would turn that down? Thanks for the reply. Brenda

CoupleForever56 62M/62F
5 posts
2/15/2005 9:39 am

We agree with both of the last two commentators and by the way gentlmen, thank you for your additions. Yes, many men list themselves as straight as there is a stigma and they really want a one on one with another woman. And we also agree that "I'm only bi with a couple" is a roll of the dice that none of us really want to take. In certain US geographies the "homophobic" feeling seems to be stronger than in others. However, the old cliche that men always dream of their woman with another woman is displaced by the fact that the #1 fantasy of a man these days according to some "experts" is for a man to see his lover with another man. The "other man" might as well be bi then!!!!! LOL.... Thanks guys and best of luck to y'all.


2/25/2005 8:01 pm

It's been an enjoyablye adventure for me so far. I truly enjoy women - dating is great. And emotionally - when connected it's the best. But in when with a couple - and she is turned on by the two of us - meaning us erotic gentlemen -enjoying each other - I enjoy immensely a cock in my mouth -or my hand - or in me. It is just such a turn on watching that woman - when I'm inside her - and he is inside me - just cummmmm. Great~

Any adventurers let me know - give me a shout - thx!

rm_jess8in2003 59M

3/22/2005 9:48 pm

I consider myself Bi, and absolutely love and adore women, foreplay and sex. But being generally selfish, I am game for anyone who wants to suck me off! And I love to see a woman turned on, so if it turns her on to see us together - then great! But I prefer not to suck other guys. I will help them get off, and I like to see a nice looking cock, but guys bodies in general don't do anything for me. Would like to try mmf sometime.

CoupleForever56 62M/62F
5 posts
3/24/2005 2:07 pm

Thanks for you contribution. We are not sure that men are bi when they want to just have the man perform on them with no reciprocal...that's kind of like heterosexual..but I'll take head from anyone..!!!!! To each his own though.....thanks again. Bill and Brenda


4/3/2005 7:21 am

Hello Bill and Brenda -hope the two of you are enjoying life and occassional high end erotic adventures. One of the interesting issues on AdultFriendFinder is that if I list myself as bifriendly on my profile then a number of couples - or women get turned off and won't reply or respond. If I allude to being open minded even that turns them off. So I'd say you two are more enlightened then your average AdultFriendFinder cpl....


4/27/2005 10:01 am

I have enjoyed threesomes both as the fellow invited in by a couple, and as the husband inviting another guy to help pleasure my wife. The latter arrangement always seemed hotter for some reason. I do not consider myself bi, however the intensity of a 3-way sex play can definitely lead a guy to expand his horizons, especially with encouragement from the lady in the picture. On many several occassions I found another man's mouth sucking my cock as I was busy pleasuring his woman, and it was not long before I lost my inhibitions and enjoyed the pleasure of sucking off her man as she watched and sometimes helped. I still do not consider myself bi, but do continue to enjoy the sensations of oral sex with a guy in a threesome setting.

1 post
4/30/2005 7:39 pm

As a long term confirmed bi guy, i have always found it very difficult meeting couples that actually do what they say they will do. Most of the time i get to here about their fantasy, but unfortunately all to often they soon back off when it becomes reality. I have had relationships with both men and woman but its that elusive threesome that frustrates me as i am sure there are couples out there.
Am i only in this??

curious12919 44M

5/14/2005 8:37 pm

I have wondered about women's fantasies regarding men together and would like to know what percentage of women actually fantasize about it. I have never actually had relations with another man, but I have thought about it quite alot. I would consider myself bi, just because I would love for the woman to enjoy it. My ultimate fantasy is for her to control the situation and make the men enjoy each other for her satisfaction.


6/6/2005 2:11 pm

I am glad to see this discussion. I know I have one reason for not listing bi on my profile. When I had that previously listed, it seemed to get unwanted attention, including from quite a few weird folks and guys just wanting to get their cock sucked by a guy for whatever reason. I personally am more comfortable with exploring my bi side in the context of an mmf situation and have only experienced it therein. Maybe there is something about performing in front of a woman that makes it exciting. But, then again, that has been the only context I have ever explored and I intend to keep it that way for now. Unfortunately, the other downside of that is some couples then think you are not genuine about your bicurious nature. I just hope to find a couple I can be friends with and who will be patient. I have liked what I have experienced so far and would like to try more.

curious4bothNC 62M/64F
44 posts
6/9/2005 12:50 am

How about this variation "down south"?
Lot's of "guys" PERIOD... eager to participate with a couple, and usually...They turn out to be.. much more ..shall we say "open minded" than their profiles would suggest! Not complaining, mind you! Us guys are capable of about ..anything...but we never dreamed our exploits would take this turn...and...yes,... that we'd like it!!!!
100% thus far!

rm_badhairday69 48M

7/6/2005 8:14 am

I was talking to you for a while and had to take my bi sexual orrientation off due to the number of gay responses. My fantasy is to be with a truly bi couple and would love to meet with you even though my sexual orrientation is straight. I am bi and have been with a few guys, but never a couple. Hope we can get together and see if things go well.

rm_no_bimale 46M
2 posts
7/7/2005 11:54 am

Well I am bi-sexual. Its as easy as that. I enjoy sex with women and men. And even though sex with both at the same time is mind blowing it is not required. I have had some of the best sex in my life with a man while his wife or girlfriend just watches and urges us on. But when it is a MMF situation, there is just something insanely sexy about having three people in a pile and them not caring if they are pleasuring or being pleasured by a member of the same sex or the opposite sex. Now that is when you know you have reached the pinacle of open sexuality.

3 posts
7/15/2005 2:13 pm

I havebeen lucky enough to have had three mfm encounters. Each time I have sucked the guys dick while he is busy eating my wife. She enjoys watching me give head to another guy as well as reciveving. I love pusssy can't get enough but also dream of sucking that really big one that women talk about. I have given anal sex only once to a guy but would like to try again. would like to try it my self but still a little scared of pain. I think it is totally unfair for a guy to only want to have his cock sucked and not return the favor.
hope we can meet some day

westsideone2112 51M

7/25/2005 3:29 pm

I have had several man on man encounters and really enjoy sucking and being sucked. that said my wife does not know this yet i would like to try a mmf threesome. but i don't know how she would react if i told her about it. I KNOW one of her fantasy is to be with more then one guy at a time. cause i whisper it in her ear and it really turns her on. I think she would like it, but would it then change us? What do ya'll think should i tell her or suggest it?

sex, drug and rock and roll. ok no more drugs, but still rockin out

1 post
7/25/2005 7:49 pm

Hi y'all and espesially the couple of forevers ...I love that handle.. read my post and then my profile and you will find that I am what I am and I would only like to be more of it more often with more delicious people that like the way I am... enthused about so many choices to explore... almost anything, except sauted liver and fava beans! If this means you are interested too respond please to please please me so I can please you too! PS to my kinky ish rogue friend hanging overboard lighten up on your loquacousness and eat what you are served and you may just have the orgy you seek as I have in my past memories...besides it dosen't seem that you are doing so badly so don't be ungrateful...wanting more is always oK but be appreciative of the bounty you have enjoyed already!

CoupleForever56 62M/62F
5 posts
8/2/2005 7:44 pm

To Westsideone. Depends on the relationship with your wife. I told Brenda...who is truly MY WIFE about it after about 18 months, but not because I was afraid of her reaction. Our communication was great from the beginning. All she can do is freak out....cut up your clothes and burn them in the driveway...and lock your butt out of the house...LOL. Just kidding. You know the best a show that shows gay men, like "Six Feet Under" and mention that you always wondered what being with another man would be like....good luck...we'll keep the light on for you!!!!

5 posts
10/16/2005 5:54 am

I spent 1 year here on AdultFriendFinder as a gold member LOOKING, did not like chat rooms because I type slowly. I stated my desire for anal sex while oraly pleasuring a female but being average ( every way ) and 50 yo. there were 2 replies and both of those came at a time when I had to work. That reply with a request to reschedule made the couples block me out. So i guess they made a sper moment decision to do a MMF 3some.

5 posts
4/27/2006 2:17 pm

Sitll NO takers or hookup, did not change a thing and another year is gone, so I conclude this " most of all people in general just want to think about it not actually do it"

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