Let's play catchup  

ClothesMyEyes 44F
81 posts
6/22/2006 10:27 pm

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6/25/2006 7:11 pm

Let's play catchup

So, here is where I'm at in my sex life. My regular partner is extremely busy, and I'm feeling lonely. We have worked out a way to get together once a week, but that just whets my appetite. By the next night, I am already horny again. I've met a couple people off of this site, but nothing outstanding yet. Talking to a couple of men that seem to be good possibilities, but after my last experience (which I'm not quite ready to talk about yet) I'm wanting to take things a bit slower.

Yes, this is a sight to find sexual partners, yes, I want sex, but that doesn't mean I have to have sex with every man that e-mails me. It almost seems as if it is expected that I will put out, just because I am here. I'm looking for friends with benies, but the friends part has to come first, not the other way around.

robdale 57M/57F
1 post
6/22/2006 11:30 pm

I agree. Most of us guys tend to rush to the sex part. I have learnt that lesson and now I do pay more attention to the spiritual side.

fortunaswm 63M/53F

6/23/2006 8:26 am

Quoting flyaway1012 from a recent response on my blog ...
"I have noticed all the bloggers that stick around long enough will discover the reason they came here, will not be the reasson they stay here."

That's what happen to me - I came for the sex and stayed for the intellect.
Keeping sex local is one thing - but stretch out on your blog search. Some of my favorites are as far away as Ireland (HBowt2), Czech (humboldthonni), and Hawaii (1hotwahine) - not to mention scattered throughout the good ole US (sweetmysterie, Heavenly, and mzhunyhole to name a few.

Have fun Cherrie - I look forward to coffee.

ilsuconu 57M

6/25/2006 3:50 pm

I thought that I wanted that when I first came to A.F.F. but soon discovered that it wasn't. Yep, it seems that most guys have that opinion about ANY woman who happens to be here; but many of us guys who are now in the blogs are in the blogs because we seem to "meet" a much classier kind of woman here. The Blogs give us all a chance to get to know each other better, because there really is a whole lot more to an adult life than sex.

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