About Shyness  

Cinderella21957 61F
188 posts
8/2/2006 12:22 am

Last Read:
8/3/2006 4:16 pm

About Shyness

About shyness
If you asked a non-shy person what it's like being shy, they'd probably guess that shy people just fade a little nervously but passively into the background and aren't very forthcoming. As a shy person yourself,(including me) you know that this isn't right: shyness is more likely a very active experience of repeatedly overcoming anxiety, forcing yourself to behave sociably, avoiding social mistakes, constantly self-monitoring when other people are around, and afterwards checking all your memories of a social event to see if anything went wrong.

Thats how I feel in blogs,just too many good blogs,I am merely just a dot in this vast space we call blogland.I stand in awe of some of the bloggers,who are legends,some who are just like me, just coming out of their shells and open up a little of themselves.

Some might say its theraputic,while others have this *knack* with words - concepts - ideas.They ask questions,I just can't go into a blog as if I knew that person, but I can relate to a lot of what they say.So as I inch my way around here,please tolerate me.

Best wishes
Cinders!


Cinders
If you take your eyes off your goals,
all you see are obstacles.


timberwolf6972 45M

8/2/2006 12:45 am

I used to be really shy once upon a time but I got over it! {=}


LiquidMotoXX 57M
79 posts
8/2/2006 1:01 am

I know what you are talking about and had to chuckle at the picture you painted. Your doing good.


Cinderella21957 61F

8/2/2006 3:46 am

thanks Guys.

Cinders
If you take your eyes off your goals,
all you see are obstacles.


ZZ_Todd 61M

8/2/2006 5:42 am

    Quoting timberwolf6972:
    I used to be really shy once upon a time but I got over it! {=}
He's right... it takes a little time, but you will get over it. I'm still incredibly shy away from the Blogs, and being around people here really has helped me open up more.


Cinderella21957 61F

8/3/2006 1:35 am

I will try,shy you...???I find that hard to believe,your pic is rather daring too

Cinders
If you take your eyes off your goals,
all you see are obstacles.


warmandsexy52 66M
13164 posts
8/3/2006 2:22 am

Think of your blog as bringing a bottle to the party. Even if it makes one person smile, as you have to me this morning, then it is worthwhile.

Everyone in blogland is very human. Believe me. There are all sorts of stories, feelings, troubles and insecurities behind the blogs. Just like with yourself, and just like with me.

May the Blogmuse be with you.

warm xx


Cinderella21957 61F

8/3/2006 4:16 pm

Thank you warm,yes I have read some amusing posts,that are with feelings and troubles.I like to look at life with passion and feeling,read and comment on posts that interest me.

Thank you warm for your kind words.

Cinders
If you take your eyes off your goals,
all you see are obstacles.


Become a member to create a blog