What do you think?  

Choozmi 51M
746 posts
1/30/2006 1:10 pm

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What do you think?

Every time I log onto this site a bunch of photos pop up of random women. Most of them are very beautiful in some way and many are quite provocative, even shocking (extreme close-ups, random body parts, foreign objects, etc.)

There is no question that I am turned on by many of these pictures, and I'm sure I'm not the only one. But I want to share another, deeper reaction that I sometimes have: "If that woman presents herself as merely a body part, how will she treat me -- as merely a body part, too?"

I realize that sometimes men and women are only looking for a short-term thing and at such times they may not be too particular about a partner's character.

But it seems to me that if someone presents him-/herself as just a random body part, how can they expect to be treated as anything more?

Also, I assume that the body-part people get so many e-mails and offers that it is a waste of time to contact them in any case. Which may of course be exactly what they want.

What do you think?

007sexy40plus 52F  
7603 posts
1/30/2006 2:57 pm

I got lots of emails from men before I ever posted a photo. I bitch-like attitude made them realize that I was a no bullshit kind of woman. I put up photos me me because I have an issue with my identity. Now my network albums contain pics of my face as well.

Now as far as a body part. You have to demand respect from a man. sure they want to see body parts, But it is a given right to not be treated as such. With me, a man see the pics and want to see more. But I am not one to show more, such as nude or what have you, but I guarantee you if one wants to meet face to face, He will respect me or there will be no date. And I always respect a man if he respects me, no matter what body part he has showing. I hope this helps some.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
1/30/2006 4:16 pm

I might treat you like a popsicle

Purry {=}


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