Girls can be such pussies  

ChinRyder 40M
340 posts
7/23/2006 11:33 am

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Girls can be such pussies

ED. note- Although Mr. Ryder does in fact have a wonderful time just being himself, it may seem very hard to tell by the blogs he types. You see, for Mr. Ryder, a good time is something that doesn't need to be written about. He prefers to write when he's in a more serious and thoughtful mood. Please do not mistake all of his blogs for sadness; if you add up all of the days that he doesn't sit and type you will find that he is in fact a very happy man.

I have two blogs to type. This one has been on my mind since this past Thursday- or Friday morning to be more precise. I just don't like to sit down and type when I'm in a bad mood b/c it often gives off the impression that I'm this horrible guy all of the time. Nothing could be further from the truth. But that's for the other blog.

It's true. Girls are pussies. I think that's why the world- and more specifically the English language uses the words the way they do. Pussy is a derogatory term. It denotes a shyness, reservation, or lack of intestinal fortitude. On the other hand, when someone steps up, stands out or does something risky we say they have balls. I don't know which came first but I do know that both terms have significance on here.

The ratio of men to women on this site is overwhelming. The men are putting it out there- posting thousands of pics, sending mass e-mails, and buying extended memberships and webcams by the truckloads. For a guy like me to actually find a woman and hold her attention for more than 2 seconds on this site is an accomplishment in itself. To actually meet on in person is a fuckin' miracle.

As luck would have it, I did find someone on here that was/is (currently undecided) worth my time. Between almost a months' worth of e-mails, IM-ing, photo swapping and phone calls I felt like we actually had made a connection. It was all there- physical attraction, great conversation, and a genuine interest in getting to know each other better.

We set up a date for her to drive down and meet. There were no implications of anything. We were going to hang out here at my place. Drink some wine, snack on some finger food and see where the night took us. We had joked that we were going to play checkers on the living room floor, and so I was actually going to go out and get one of those checkerboard rugs. It'd give us something to do while we conversed and then when our time was up I'd give it to her as a gift. An interesting and unusual piece that would remind her of our time together. It was all about the unique experience of meeting someone online and making a connection. And really good story to tell her girlfriends.

Anyway, as you can tell by my writing the date never occurred. About 5 days before it was to happen all communication on her part ceased. The night before she was to come down I called her to see what was up. Me being the perfectionist wanted to have everything in order- from the selection of cheeses to the type of wine, especially since she was showing up right after I got of work the next day and I wasn't going to have any time to prepare.

Well, instead of stepping up and just calling to cancel she decided to just ignore the whole problem until it went away. That's such crap. It really is. I mean, who does that?!?! You talk to someone for a month and then all of a sudden figure that if you just pretend that they didn't exist that they'd really disappear? Bullshit.

This is what gets me about girls (and I apologize ahead of time for the generalization). You never say what's really on your mind and instead like to play these little fucking games that piss us guys off. That's the whole fucking reason my ex-girlfriend and I called it quits. After being together for 2 and a half years (yes, I know, on and off) she still would rather play these fucking games rather than just cut to the chase and tell me what she was REALLY THINKING. Why do girls do that shit? Are they afraid of hurting guys' feelings? Bullshit. I'd rather hear the trust anyday rather than learn that you thought I was incapable of accepting it. That just gives the implication that I can't handle it and you don't trust me- there isn't shit in this life that I can't handle. I've been through more than most, so don't worry your pretty little head about that one.

So, that being said, I think I'm going to take a break. I've been active on this site for 3 months and have yet to meet anyone outside of a chat room. Don't get me wrong- there have been a few that have offered to stop by, but no one that meets my expectations (yes, they're pretty high). I just feel like all of the female bullshit has given me one hell of a negative attitude. I absolutely love the sex, but I hate all of the other shit that comes along with it. It's not just the girl on here that did it- it's everyone. It's my ex, the girl that I was sleeping with that swore up and down that she didn't want a relationship but then did, and anyone else that wants to play the fucking game. I'm sick of it all. I just want to break away from it and get myself centered. That or grudge fuck the hell out of someone. I'm talkin' bruises and pulled muscles and a pussy that's rubbed raw and swollen for days.

You know why women have all of the power, don't you?
Because they have all of the vaginas.

To be continued.......?


7/23/2006 12:57 pm

Sorry to hear that darlin'. Maybe you should leave the girls alone and search for a woman instead? There is a difference. Girls play childish games like that. Real women do not.

SweetDarlinAngel 40F
2996 posts
7/24/2006 3:54 pm

Perhaps you should try to pay more attention to your loyal fans, right here. The ones that don't play games.


laydee2 39F
31585 posts
8/19/2007 7:00 pm

Wow.. This was one seriously good one to find this week D

Let's see, we have the bones of your story, a hint of my 'Angry Sex' post, a bit about women who fuck around playing games and the fact that us women have the vaginas

Nice to see you getting pissed off too

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