Chicago, Chicago...Where for art thou, Chicago?  

Chi1guy 49M
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3/31/2005 10:29 am

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Chicago, Chicago...Where for art thou, Chicago?

Hello again,

First off, a big Thank You to all who've written directly with your kind words about my last post. It's nice to know that people still appreciate the literary bent of another and are so kind. It's the little offerings of kind words that really keeps this big ol' world turning, and it's greatly appreciated.

So what now? I'm getting some very interesting and intriguing responses from people, and I have to admit, it's kinda fun! So here's my concern - Is it too god to be true? Before my married days, I did meet quite a few women through various means (over the phone, classifieds) that sometimes left me a little flat. One thing I pride myself on is being honest, and let's just say that there were some of those out there who were...less...than truthful. I'm not only talking about the obvious (looks/appearance), but also age, marital status, location, occupation, kids/no kids, living situations...pretty much anything you can think of, really.

I understand that the anonymity of the internet allows a discourse that is not padded by social norms...That it allows people to be much more direct and get to a personal level much quicker than if two people are sitting across from another. But is it also a forum for where people just through up their avatars of fancy? Living a persona that is quite different from themselves, simply because they can or that they wish to live as something different? I guess that's understandable and not inherently too bad, but when others attach feelings to this altered persona, only bad things can happen, right?

Where's my dream girl? One who loves to get lost in another? One who lives life with passion, intelligence, and a beauty of soul and body that is oh-so-enticing? Great sense of humor who can discuss politics and have a sense of the ridiculous? I could be completely fooling myself in this case since I'm dealing in a forum where the purity of information is tainted quite a bit. Hey - I'm not the best looking guy in the world (although I have been called Handsome many, many times and have been dealt with the "cute" moniker for life), but I am confident that I'm a "Great Guy" (let's keep the burgeoning infidelity out of it for argument's sake, please) who knows how to make a woman smile inside and out.

So therefore I ask...Dream Girl? Where are you?


3/31/2005 10:53 am

If you find her, aks if she has a sister for me , also lonely in Chicago!

eyekandi20 33F

3/31/2005 7:29 pm

You know what is funny, I am trying to find my dream guy. I have been with my boyfriend for five years. Two kids later I feel like there is more out there for me. I am too young for all my responsibilities but I do them with pride because i am still free at heart. I am caring and outgoing and that is all i need. So good luck to you and i hope you find her. Keep us posted.

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