Chat_Queen 48F
39 posts
1/26/2006 6:23 am

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4/5/2006 11:07 pm


In the cyber world you cross paths with so many people. Some you get to know well and are glad you met. Others that you wish you had never met. Then there are the one's that don't wish to get to know you based on what they have heard from others.

I for one am the the most non-judgementalist person you will ever meet. My husbnad calls me nieve because of this. I just feel that everyone deserves a chance. I will take in account what I have heard about someone but will not let that decide for me whether to be friends.

Unfortunately being on a site and not actually knowing someone it is very hard to make accurate judgements on anyone. Some people here think that if they have seen some post and replies in groups from you they have you pegged. Well that is certainly untrue. They also think if you change your profile because of past problems on this site that you are fake. That also is very untrue.

We came to this site for fun and entertainment and to meet people of the same like mindedness of ourselves. Unfortunately along our way we have encountered many people who choose not to like us. Which is okay they have that right. The problem is when instead of moving in their direction and you in yours they can't seem to stop and leave you alone. Everywhere you go and every group you join they always want to throw up the past conflicts in your face.

So what if we have made other profiles to try and move on. We have never hidden the fact that we have done this. We have even stated on many occasions all the profiles that we have had. Multiple profiles is not against the rules of AdultFriendFinder. Actually AdultFriendFinder encourages them. We have on several profiles even stated that this was a new profile and what our last handle was. So how can anyone claim that we are being fake? We are still the same people, looking for the same thing that we always have. Just because we choose to move on and try to have a good time here does not make us the bad guy nor does it make us fake.

The way I see it is if people can't let the past be the past and let people move on then SHAME ON THEM. There is no rule that states that because we met and things didn't work out that we have to continue to badger and criticize each other to death. So please for the sake of all argueing please advance to the next blog and stay out of mine. Now if I write something and you have something constructive to say about my writtings by all means please comment. If you only see that it is me and you wish to cause me problems and more heartache...DON'T. I don't enter your world so please don't enter mine.

rm_ohsolustful 59M
859 posts
1/27/2006 7:38 am

I say live and let live, everybody has their nitch in this world....Oh and hello by the way, interesting post, best wishes to you and yours..............................

Chat_Queen 48F

1/28/2006 4:16 am

Thanks anne I appreciate that comment.

Hello to you too ohsolustful..glad to meet you too. I appreciate your comments as well. It is nice to see nice comments instead of some that I have

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
1/28/2006 8:04 am


I agree that "Just because we choose to move on and try to have a good time here does not make us the bad guy nor does it make us fake" but when you have someone who INTENTIONALLY hurts others by being someone fake and by making us care and grieve, it is not easy to forgive that individual.

Welcome to Blogville and I look forward to more post by you.

Take Care,

Purry {=}


Chat_Queen 48F

1/28/2006 3:52 pm

I agree that forgiving can be a very hard thing. Then forgetting is a whole nother issue. I'm sorry that some one did this to you. I have no idea why people go has far as they do sometimes. It is a bad thing and I don't condone anyone that gets so involved to the point of a relationship and then flipping the switch.

Thanks for the welcome it is very appreciated!

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