To swing or not to swing?  

Chameleon49001 45F
27 posts
8/2/2006 10:29 am

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11/2/2007 5:21 pm

To swing or not to swing?

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months now. He recently told me that he likes the swinger lifestyle. What he didn't know is that I have been involved in the lifestyle for sometime now as well.
We got together with another couple and it all worked out well. But I am wondering because we were fighting and arguing before we had our get together if this is something that we should do right now or not.
I have a hard time being with just one man for sex and this would work out great for me. I just don't want him to think different about me or for it to come before our relationship.
Like I said I have been doing this for sometime and he is just entering the life.
Should we keep doing it or should we back off and get to know eachother better first.
I don't want to lose him because this is the first man who has been good to me and he has his heart set on swinging.
What should I say to him or should I just go with it knowing that this is what I want anyway?

Chameleon49001 45F

11/30/2006 8:06 pm

Check out my Magazine article. Swinging with your man can be good.

rm_pris507 51M
21 posts
8/17/2006 1:52 am

Do what makes you happy, and with who makes you happy.

redmustang91 58M  
8917 posts
8/16/2006 11:24 pm

You need to make some rules for the encounters. There are some good books about swinging and the pitfalls, I understand. Good luck.

blueslave682 49M

8/2/2006 12:52 pm

I think the simple outlook for you both is that you both like swinging. Who entered the lifestyle when, really at this point, doesn't matter. Just be honest with each other when each see's someone they'd like to be with, and take it one day at a time from this point. He obviously loves to be with more than one woman, as you do with men. What a treat! You both can have each other and other's as well!!! Good Luck!

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