CelticFlower 51F
1061 posts
6/5/2006 2:50 am

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12/5/2006 12:54 pm


I faced this weekend with trepidation. I had been under the weather all week and my eldest had been very sick (literally).Plus a non surprising revelation from my angelic hubby, left me feeling like the stuffing had been knocked out of me. I wasn`t quite sure where to turn or how to move on.
I decided revenge and thoughts of what could have been were pointless and a waste of my energy reserves. No point in moping around feeling sad.
So on Saturday morning i got up showered, did my hair, put my make up on - including lippy and went out to face the world. I felt so much better, this was how it was to be from now on - making the most of myself and my life.
We spent time with friends, the kids had a great time and so did I. We had lots of laughs and some fresh air(the sun came out too....yipee).
I had some wonderful chats with friends, face to face, on the telephone and online.
So i know my life has so many positives in it. I have to just focus on them, especially during run ins with `greetin face`.
So smiling and content......apart from the halo really annoying me!!!!!!!!!

papyrina 52F
21133 posts
6/5/2006 4:59 am

make sure you look great every time the cretin coms round thats revenge enough hugs honey

I'm a

i'm here to stay

racingcrazy67 50M

6/5/2006 5:52 am

Great to read those words and to hear you being so positive!

You are a wonderful woman and it's so good to see how you are coping. This is the start of a new time in your life that I'm sure will be full of the happiness you so deserve.

If you need any help with that halo?

freetime648 53F

6/5/2006 7:10 am

Amen Girl...good for you and it IS good hearing the cheeriness!!!!

xx FREETIME648 xx

GB_Cple 67M/56F  
3113 posts
6/5/2006 9:20 am

Thats the spirit

Don't worry bout the halo,
1. it suits you.
2. you can replace it with horns after sundown

I will miss our little morning chats for the next 10 days ,
but we both will thinking of you , and the bairns.

love + kisses

cassandrabear 50M/36F

6/5/2006 1:18 pm

Flower -

Stay postive and remember that revenge is a dish best served cold! Seriously, talking is a great way to put things into perspective and I am online most the time - if you ever want a chat.

I hope it was bright red lippy and maybe get the nails to match!

I am writing to DIY SOS so I 'll keep you posted on the bath front!!

Cassie xx

HotDev1l 46M
1358 posts
6/6/2006 4:08 pm

Heart goes out to you honey

HBowt2 60F

6/11/2006 1:46 am

It is hard but one step at a time and stay positive ...

VilerUlnarSlued 63M
40 posts
6/21/2006 4:09 am

You go girl.

After years of discontent and fighting we reached a point where my ex told me she was filing for divorce. I had mixed feeling, as you do now, but in the end it was the best thing that ever happened to me.

Staying positive is the best way to go. And damn you look good. His loss.

Babel__Fish 46F

12/5/2006 5:59 am

" I felt so much better, this was how it was to be from now on - making the most of myself and my life."

Remeber this in the moments when it is hard for you sweetie!


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