A Friend in Need  

CelticFlower 51F
1061 posts
4/20/2006 1:28 pm

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A Friend in Need

I am the kind of person who likes to help. I guess, for most of my working life i have been part of a caring profession( some people may disagree with that).
When a friend is not well or having problems, i would like to be able to help. I sometimes feel that i have failed because i cannot do this. It makes me feel inadequate.
I guess i have to be realistic, i am not a magician. I am a caring person & sometimes the most important thing i can do, is make the person realise that i care. As i have found this is a very important thing, when my life is stressful & problematic.
Kisses and hugs to my friends who need/want them.

GoddessOfTheDawn 106F
11240 posts
4/20/2006 1:53 pm

~hugz~ to you....

CelticFlower replies on 4/21/2006 1:42 am:
Hugs returned

n0tatalker 40M

4/20/2006 1:58 pm

Happy 420!

CelticFlower replies on 4/21/2006 1:43 am:

muscles4u2have 56M
1645 posts
4/20/2006 3:14 pm


CelticFlower replies on 4/21/2006 1:44 am:
mmmmm bug hugs are even better

papyrina 52F
21133 posts
4/20/2006 3:53 pm

2 asprin next time and all the rest you can do you tried you cared that is more then enough,hugs

I'm a

i'm here to stay

CelticFlower replies on 4/21/2006 1:44 am:
I know i did. Not all of the day was bad............so i`m told.
Hugs to you too

GB_Cple 67M/56F  
3117 posts
4/21/2006 1:01 am

Sometimes just knowing someone cares about you, is enough.

CelticFlower replies on 4/21/2006 2:19 am:
I hope it is too
Hugs & Kisses to you both

UnpinAfireFaust 58M

4/21/2006 1:23 am

I have the same feelings of inadequacy, Celtic...when I want to help someone and there's just no way I can. And while letting someone know you care is important...it still sometimes leaves me feeling as if I have failed them...if I can't help in a more tangible way.

** Here's a hug if you need it and a just because. **

CelticFlower replies on 4/21/2006 1:47 am:
Maybe we need a communal moan Cannon. A support group for the carers in this world. I have to say in this case the care very much works in both directions, so i`m lucky.
A hug and a kiss is always lovely & the same to you if/when you need them.

Kaliedascope61 43M
4084 posts
4/21/2006 8:50 am

all you can do is say that you care, that you will be there if needed.

I know in my own experince that if someone tries to force there help on me then I will resent them for it.

Some consider a bad thing to close off and deal with your problems on your own, but I have my system and it works most of the time. The best friends that I have are there when I need them, they let me know it, but do not try to comfort me unless i go to them first with it.


Free the West Memphis Three!

CelticFlower replies on 4/22/2006 6:37 am:
Yes what you say is very true.

Babel__Fish 46F

4/24/2006 1:05 am

*jumps up with her one good foot*

and grabs a kiss from Flower.

Sorry I have not been over to your blog... I have been in hiding as of late.


CelticFlower replies on 4/24/2006 4:40 am:
You don`t need to grab the kiss sweetie i give it gladly.

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