Selling yourself to a mute... is this a test?  

Catdoc2000 58M
944 posts
4/15/2006 5:03 am

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11/28/2006 2:52 pm

Selling yourself to a mute... is this a test?

I have discovered a disturbing phenomenon here. Women who give you their contact info then never communicate. I suppose some of it is that they are still sorting through the emails and just giving out contact info to those who make the first cut. In the meantime what's a guy to do? Since many of my contacts are an hour away I like to let them know when I will be in their area. I clearly state that IF we do meet I expect nothing but some face to face time and a better understanding of each other BUT I can really understand how many women would think that is a line of crap and that I'll be pressing them for a BJ in the car....
So we get to the realm of one way communications and how do you get your true self accross in one way communications? How to sell yourself to a mute? I fall back to the puppy in the minefield approach and just try to stay positive and don't be too specific about anything. Without feedback a warm and fuzzy yet undefined persona is the image I want to get across. One thing is for sure this site is a good way to get an education on the female mind. Maybe she figures that since you have her contact info it's up to you to just name a time and place for a meeting but that would also likely mean she has a dick!

rm_Dagerazod 51M/56F
41 posts
4/15/2006 7:19 am

I have noticed the same thing.
Sure am glad I found something special enough that I dont even LOOK anymore
Here is wishing you find yours!

Catdoc2000 58M

4/15/2006 8:36 am

Thanks, man! Now I know it's not my breath! LOL

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