What's Up With That?  

CandyKissBaby 62F
1919 posts
12/27/2005 12:45 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

What's Up With That?


I have something eating at me & not in a good way either. I have a special friend & we have kinda lost touch with each other lately. I know with the holidays & all, everyone is so busy... I sure was! I still found time to chat with my friend on messenger for a little bit, or sent him a few offline messages... one wishing him a Merry Christmas. I didn't hear anything back from him. Not one word, so I messaged him again & asked if he got any of my other messages. He said no. I really don't know what to think, but it's not looking good. I'm left to wonder what the heck happened. Are my messages really getting lost in cyber space from some screwed up messenger?

I would say sure, all the messages could have gotten lost, if it wasn't for the fact that we sort of had tentative plans to meet for a holiday kiss this week. Apparently he didn't want to meet with me while we both had some free time, cause I feel if he did, he would have tried a bit harder to reach me... I only got that one message from him telling me he hadn't received anything else from me. Have any of you guys ever did this & why? Where is the honesty in this?

With a new year fast approaching & a new look on life, since the death of hubby's friend/co-worker... I'll be looking at things differently

kiss XoXo

playtime44uandi 54M
6545 posts
12/30/2005 4:08 pm

Well I hate to say this Candy, But in my experience, things like that are not very good news. I Hope for your sake I'm wrong. It could be totaly situational. But If youd like someone to talk to I'd love to talk. Maybe we could give each other some advice. I know I need some.
I'm tired of talking to friends at work that dont understand & just want to tell me what to do.

~We'll Leave The Light On~


CandyKissBaby 62F

12/30/2005 9:09 pm

playtime.. anytime! lol we have been cyber friends for awhile, i feel like i know you, although i haven't actually got the chance in real life. i still have hope of one day meeting you in person, but until that day... i consider you my good computer buddy & i'm always here for you. everyone needs friends who understand & are supportive. thanks hon, hopefully talk to you soon

kiss XoXo


utbucky 50M
163 posts
1/3/2006 8:37 am

Im sure thers a good reason, and yes, i have sent messages that never got to people and i have hear for others they sent me messages and have nerver gotten them. best thing i can say is talk with him, find out why you all wasnt able to meet up.


CandyKissBaby 62F

1/4/2006 10:09 am

    Quoting utbucky:
    Im sure thers a good reason, and yes, i have sent messages that never got to people and i have hear for others they sent me messages and have nerver gotten them. best thing i can say is talk with him, find out why you all wasnt able to meet up.
thanks bucky, i guess communication is the best key to any relationship, no matter what level of relationship one has.

kiss XoXo


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