Old Lovers  

CandyKissBaby 62F
1919 posts
6/7/2006 8:30 am

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6/10/2006 11:35 am

Old Lovers

Dear Blog

I recently heard from a guy I used to see. He was my very first lover from online. Oh, we hit it off right away, & had some fantastic hot fun times. Mmm thinking about him still makes me wet.

I'm wondering though, why... after all this time, is he wanting me? I should take it as a compliment, although it does amaze me. It's not like I'm a great lover or anything. So what is it that makes a guy look me up after what seems like ages & want to see me again? Maybe it's cause I leave the guy with all those feel good memories

candykiss XoXo

nighthawkman3 65M
2 posts
6/7/2006 9:18 am

Some of the best loves are the one's who are both able to respect the beauty of a woman mature in years, able to give herself over without fret or fear, and give in to passion without shame. As a man and lover I can only relate to ladies who know ther limits, strive to shre their pleasures adn open their minds to being mad love to.

Old lovers are great lover's for they know all the trigger's and use them to both satisfy, and give without fear of knowing when to go adn when to hold back.

rmweeks @yahoo .ca

playtime44uandi 53M
6545 posts
6/7/2006 6:34 pm

I wish I had an old lover to look up. Unfortunatly all to often when its over, its over.

~We'll Leave The Light On~

bigdaddy71365 52M

6/7/2006 7:40 pm

I can only wonder,hmmmmm, you must have left him vey happy, happy in deed!!!!!!!!!!!

Big D......

beamer52up 65M

6/9/2006 10:37 am

When an old boyfriend or girlfriend contacts a former friend and lover it usually means that something happened in the former's life. Many times it is a loss of a lover or lack of success in finding someone else that brings them back.

Sometimes that is ok and things work out but more than not it is usually a situation where one remembers only the good parts and forgets the parts that actually caused the original break up.

In most instances those "problems" come right back.

Also there may be other associations of good things happening in your lives at the time that are brought back by the thoughts of the former lover. Those good things may not have anything to do with him or her but are associated with them because they occurred at the same time you were together.

One thing about life is you really can never go back. Things change, circumstances change, people change. Nothing is ever exactly the way they were. Many times the desire to go back to the way things were in one's life when things may have seemed better get confused with feelings for old lovers.

Life marches on. That is the one constant.

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