I'm upset  

BlueLovinLatina 31F
237 posts
9/29/2005 11:22 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

I'm upset


I had a really bad day today...so I got online to see if Bob was on so that i could possibly talk to him about it...He was online and I IMed him...he was talking about his cell phone...and then we went into a sexual type of conversation...

Then I asked if he was going to call me tonight and he said why?? and I was like if you dont want to you dont have to then he said why? do you want to fuck me? so I got a little annoyed and said nevermind. Am I only allowed to talk to him about sex and nothing more? i felt that if I responded with that I wanted to talk about something else he wasnt going to...or he was going to say yeah in a little bit but not actually call...

...then he stopped IMing me. So I got pissed off...and I dont even know what I said...and then he came back and said "I was getting something to eat," which made me feel like an idiot then he went on to say "just cause I leave the computer...blah blah blah. you always think I'm ignoring you or talking to somebody else"

talking to somebody else...I've said it, I admit it. I've said it like twice. But I dont think...it to be true.

I do always think he's ignoring me, because he IS! talking to me once a week isnt ignoring me? I never knew wanting to hear his voice was such a crime. Everytime he gets me pissed off...he doesnt "chase" after me...he just ignores it. Kinda hurts...I guess I'm not worth it to him.


Goldenhairgodess 64F
396 posts
9/30/2005 6:20 am

I think getting you pissed off is very rewarding for him. If you found another guy to talk to, if you learned not to let him push your buttons, the game would be over. You just need to value yourself enough to do something about this situation. When people leave me hanging-I sign off. When they give me a dumb excuse-I tell them to enter brb (be right back) if they expect me to hang around. Then when they do a brb I respond with my own brb to let them know I have things to do too. AND I GO DO THEM! Your time is at least as important as theirs, right?


overthetop2952 66M

10/1/2005 2:18 am

Dump this guy and talk to me! (I'm dead serious.) Signed Your Friend Robert P.S. Don't hate me because of my name.


austindennizen

10/1/2005 3:24 am

If a guy disrespects you, he doesn't respect you. If he respects you, you'll know it. And you'll make him pay for his mistakes. Be merciful and forgiving to guys you like, but set a standard of self respect and don't waver. That will make an impression.


rm_BornNYC69

10/1/2005 2:07 pm

what do you people know?..nothing


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